Question:
Ok some of u guys might think this is dumb but w/e. ok well, i broke up with my ex a few months ago, and i really thought i was over him, but all of asudden im starting 2 realize that i might still have feelings for him.
even though he's done some mean things since we broke up, i really miss him.
what do u guys think i should do?



Choices:
Try 2 talk 2 him and get back 2gether
Just become friends again
Just forget him
Just go out with some1 else

 

Strange days..

Well I like you two KKChristrulz

I think you should contact a relationship therapist. <--QUOTE

I think i like you !

I broke up with a guy about 3 months ago, and I'm still not exactly sure what happened. It wasn't a bad break-up, and we said we would still be friends, but afterwards he kept cursing me off and making fun of me. My friend told me he thought I was annoying because I use "big words". (wtf!!)

We're still not speaking, because it hurt a lot, and then later I realized that I only really liked him because he liked me. It was good while it lasted, but he really is a jerk, and I just didn't want to see it and sort of blocked it out while we were dating.

You should definitely think about why you broke up in the first place. Or you could list reasons why you're better off without him. (Your friends are always a great help with this one.) If it's not too soon, you could try to think about other guys, but remember how much fun it is to be single.

Peace
Cb526

ok I want to give you the thoughts from a guys point of view who has done this.

I was with this girl and we wernt out for almost a year and I loved her dearly!!!! I broke up with her because we were fighting and there wasn't a flair for some weird reason well after about two weeks I wasn't ready to see other people but I did anyways went to a club with some firends and met an outstanding young lady which we spent about 2 months talking and hanging out until we started dating.

my ex told her that she was over me and really wasn't she was upset by me meeting other women. She was deeply sorry for what ha ahppen in the relationship but you can base you young years around one feeling you have to live your life and not get held down. not saying a relationship will hold you down but saying that expieriencing great new things is a better atmosphere for everyone than to make your life harder.

I hope I helped out a little bit from personal expierence glad you asked ;-)

TATORS

I think you should contact a relationship therapist.

I never been through this but I am going to try anyways.

Why don't you talk to him about how much he hurt you and that you still have feelings for him but your not so sure that you have feelings for him or that you just miss him being around. Tell him that you want to start over from the beginning, you want to be friends and go from there. Tell him nothing is for certain and you won't play games with honestly if he doesn't play games either. Tell him anything you want to tell him.

Let him talk too, don't do all the talking. See what he thinks about this. See what he wants to do about this. Try to figure out how he feels.


In other words: Talk to him about this!!!! Plan a day when you both could see each other ALONE and just talk and listen to each other.

If you have to trick him into talking to you then do it because he might be mad and not want to talk to you. However, explained why you needed to trick him to begin with.

Bye N Have a nice day

I have gone through this samething, but so have many people. The only thing I can really say is sit back and think of why you two broke up. And then think if you miss HIM or being with SOMEONE. I kept getting back into a bad relationship because I didnt want to be alone. And trust me it was screwed up, the best thing I did was get out of there. (Now he is affraid of me ^_^ )... Anywho, just really think about it from all angles. Best of luck!!

Tootles!
~Alex~