Hey.. I need to know how many people here would tell their boyfriends that they cut, if he asked. My boyfriend asked me today and i have no idea what to say to him =S Can you help?.. if you can thats great!

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Meg

i would listen to my MIND and not my HEART; and i also agree with xOxkait

Ah. Thanks, nikky. I'm a little. Slow, socially. Sometimes, I need to be told something directly for the blocks to ckick into place. . .Um. You know what I mean. ^^;


Aw, he sounds so sweet. ^_^ I'm happy for you.

Well, i asked him why he thought i cut and he told me everything. I knew about him moving here only a month or 2 ago but he never said why. He told me that his family moved because his sister commited suicide. He told me that he could lose me the way he lost his sister. I told him i did and i havent cut for almost a week now. Hes trying so hard to help me.

I love him to death.

I used to cut.. and when my boyfriend asked me about it I told him the truth.He is actually the one who convinced me to stop. No one else could.

But it might be different for you than it wqas for me. I knew that my boyfriend would stand by me no matter what I told him, and i knew that he could keep a secret. I trust him completely.. if you feel the same way about your boyfriend.. then i think you should.

Uh... frankly most people cut because they dont like talking (generally) So if i were cutting telling anybody i was cutting would be the last thing id do .

But if you think that your BF could help you with ... I think you should ..

Hmmm... it's hard to answer that, I'd have to emulate that mindset...and I try to repress feelings like that...
Yes. Love is very important to me. I'd want the person I love to help me, or accept me...I still can't really emulate how that feels. I don't have enought experience in that area...it brings up a lot of...bad memories. I don't cut, I just have memories similar to the feelings required...

Um. Sorry. I got all confusing. If you love him, you'd tell him. If he loves you, he'll accept it, and help you.

well darling, it all depends on how close you are to your boyfriend. my best friend told her bf, and when they broke up, he told everyone and made a big joke about it.

and really, no one needs to know except yourself. if you trust him, and want him to know, then tell him. but just to warn you, guys don't deal with that kind of stuff well. have you ever told any of your friends? you know their reactions? his will probably be worse.


much love,

kait

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