What is your opinion when it comes to finding the special someone for you? Do you go for look, brains, humorous, or relaxed type? Give me some opinions

Worthwaitinfor:
you just discribed my ex boyfriend (and currently my best guy friend). He's skinny, and funny, and sweet, and like 6'4. lol. I thought that was funny
I prefer a guy with some meat on his bones, I don't want a guy skinnyer then me. And I like it when they can pick me up! hehe I'm odd I know

I hate to seem shallow but what attracts me first is looks. That doesn't mean that I base what I like on looks, it's just the first thing that attracts me. I like those really skinny, kinda pale boys who look like you could blow on them and knock them over but they're really actually strong. Brown hair and either brown or green eyes (but I could go for blue too). I'm not really into blondes. And I like red hair too. And I like him to be taller than me but that's not really difficult, as I'm really short.

But the main thing that gets me is personality. The guy I'm sorta seeing right now (long story) isn't exactly ideal as far as my taste in looks (though he is cute) but he's got the personality type I like. Funny is key. He has to be able to make me laugh because I joke around a lot. I like the whole opening doors for me, carrying my books thing. It makes me feel special. And good hugs. I am a big hug person. I must get good hugs. The most important factor is honesty. It's hard to p*ss me off but lying will do it. So he has to be honest. There's other things too but those are the main points.

Since I'm only in high-school, I'm not looking for "the one" yet. I think every relationship has the potential to be "the one." When I was still with my current ex, I thought he could be the one. He was perfect. Until he lied to me, of course. So I'm just going with the flow and letting whatever happens, happen. If me and that guy I'm sorta seeing ever become a couple, maybe he's the one. I'll just have to wait and see.

My current boyfriend is pretty great. Blue "crinkley" eyes... I LOVE crinkely eyes! They're so cute! He can make me laugh, we're both huge band geeks, he's cute in my eyes, he's smart, I can be myself around him, he dosn't care what I look like (like he'll come over when I've just woke up hehe), we have simialer goals, and simaler interests. He's pretty great!

well for me u have tohave a sense ahumor and also be smart.looks and style might not be an issue if you can make me laugh but also make me think during one of our interlectual conversations

hes gotta have a sense of humor. and a good personality. brains i don't care too much about, just as long as he ain't a total airhead. looks aren't everything, but they're definatly a perk

i need a person who can understand me and where i am coming from, if a person is to cooky or wierd then they wont be able to understand what i do and the reasons i do these things. ANd i would not be happy to have to explain why i do everything i do. But Eye Candy is alway good

Not to sound like a pig a person has to be some what attractive to me, not to others but to myself. They have to have humor andbe smart. They dont have to be a brain surgeon or anything but smarts is nice. They need to be able to support a family, buy a house, pay for kids, food etc. Thats what i mainly look for.

I like people who are a bit quirky… I was attracted to my current boyfriend because he's clever and really made me laugh, and because he just didn't seem like other people… I knew he would be the type of person I could talk to and I admired the way he was totally himself… He's got a bit of a 'don't give a damn' attitude which I was impressed by, being something of a shy person, and a passion for life. Integrity…

Looks are part of the package but I find different things attractive about different people so I wouldn't say they're important… the way you look can be attractive if you have an attractive personality.

Bex

i look for a bad boy, and also someone who is quite slick....they must be cute, and be in good with my friends

Looks aren't that important! It would be a plus though if they were cute! I like people that make me laugh!

I like boys with sparkly blue eyes.

One word: Perfection.

I like women with powerful eyes and long hair. I like to have in common with her hiking in particular, and numerous other interests if possible. I enjoy a good sense of humor and I like people who are passionate about their ambitions.

Looks aren't very important to me, but it would be a plus if he was cute in my eyes. I don't really want him to be nerdy smart, but I also don't want him to be stupid. He has to have a kind heart and he HAS to be able to make me laugh. And I want him to have commen sense too.