Today a boy at my school was really having a bad day with his attitude and anger. If a girl tries to hit him he hits them back. He also irritates and tempts them to get on his nerves just so he can hurt them. Also he hits girls sometimes for no reason. I don't agree. His action lead me to think he's going to be a wife beater which is not good I told him to stop but he says he's just playing with people but this is nothing to be played with. I challenged boys who have problems "DON'T TAKE IT OUT BY HITTING A GIRL"!

I only hit guys if they make fun of me or one of my friends. Like to day a guy named John triped my friend and I slapped him across the face!! He didn't bug us for the rest of the day. I'm very defenceive of my friends.

If you wanna hit, play Lacrosse, usually they let girls play with the guys. Weel, atleast in my league they do.

Thats right when I hit a guy my hardest I want him to hit me his hardest and not back down just because I am a girl! I came to Canisteo school and in my old school they treated everybody equal not even the girls and guys were seperated! But in Canisteo its different I signed up for football and the next thing I know everyone is saying I cant play football because I am a girl and I will get hurt! Plus now that I live with my Grandma I cant do anything but clean because everyone thinks thats all girls can do because they are too sensetive! I am sick of it!

What you need to do is sucka punch him right in the eye!

so, women want to be equal eh? I am a girl. But if i hit a guy i expect to get hit back. if you have to hit him cuz he's annoyig deal with te consequences. As soon as we get hit we aren't equal but when we want to be we are. hypocrit.

I think both girls and guys should work on not hitting each other because it's not good. I think hitting should be done only in danger I know I play fight but when it's done like I could really be hurt that I need to go to the emergency room or if anybody needs to go then it needs to stop.

CTCDreams

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"DON'T TAKE IT OUT BY HITTING A GIRL"!

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so he should hit another guy? he shouldn't be hitting anything. there's better ways to let out your anger than by physically hitting someone.

The only time i hit a guy is a little petty tap which i am usually just messing around. one time i taped a guy on his shoulder playfully and he like practly launced me across the room, it was joke, i mean he was joking too but they dont realize how fragile(lol)us girls are...lol...


Missy

at my school it sorta helps if think every one is better then me, and they are. but lately i cry in the mourning wishing i would die not wanting to wake up, i think that is depression.. i live in a big 6 floor building and i live on the 5th story and i always sit on the window cill in my bedroom thinking how i want to jump but then i rember how much it will hurt.

if a girl hits a boy the boy should be aloud to response how every the heck he wants, even if it is hitting or even screaming and cursing. the girl should not of hit the boy if she was not expecting him to hit back. i grew up with that stupid rule and hate it.

I agree with ya there dreams, but not all guys are like that, i am a guy, and i get angry plenty of times, but i will never hit a girl, unless she is attacking me. Yea there are guys that hit girls for fun, but that just means people need to stand up to them and tell them not to, or report them to a teacher, counsler or somebody who could help the kid. but what i don't get is its not ok for a guy to hit a girl, but when a girl hits a guy its ok?!?!?

Like I said it's bad for boys to hit girls but I do agree with the guys some girls take advantage of this an it's not right. I really don't think fighting is good or hitting rather unless you are in danger other in then that hitting is not necessary and we should put an end to it. Thanks for replying.

CTCDREAMS

I've heard that too. I hate it when girls go up and smack a guy, and when he hits her back, she starts whining about it. My family does this. When a girl decides to sock my brother, my sis or I go and knock the crap out of her, and vice versa. It works out.....

I hate the "don't hit a girl" rule. People don't need to hit, period. I've had guy friends tell me that if I weren't a girl, they'd hit me.

i think the issue here isn't so much the gender as the violence. this kid obviously has violence issues. maybe he picks on girls cause they tend to be smaller and he doesn't feel as intimidated.

I'm not sure why guys do all that stuff but I do know one thing.

To Me: Some girls really disreapect guys too. With the hitting, the name calling, the taking their things and saying "this is mines now", with the thinking they are superior than the guy and with the teasing a guy and when the guy ask that girl out, she acts clueless of what he is feeling and she totally blows him off like he doesn't have feelings.

To Me: I see girls do this too. Guys do this too. They both find a connection in doing this to one another.

There's three cases that I have observed when it comes to this

To Me: The First Case: For some cases people think it's just normal. You hit me, I will hit you back, you call me something, I will call you something back, you tease and I will tease back but it's all in fun and games, we are still cool friends.

To Me: If you both feel good about doing this then do it.

To Me: The Second Case: For other cases only one of the opposite sex does this and the other takes it. Now this is when this "normal thing" actually becomes a problem for the person who takes it and the person who causes it probably doesn't know exactly what problem he/she is really causing. He/she still thinks it's all in fun and games, that they are still cool friends.

To Me: Now if that is the case: Then I think you shouldn't go jump and say "Harassment" first. You should try talking to them and if they still keep it up, try talking to them again but this ime with a warning in it. If they do it again, say that's it and do what the warning was. Tell someone about this and see what you can do.

To Me: Don't just take it!!!!!!!!!!! If you really feel uncomfortable and you don't what this person doing this then tell them to stop. If that doesn't work, go get some help.

To me: The Third Case: For another case is when a guy does this to a girl but doesn't want the girl to do it back to him or when a girl does this to a guy and then when the guy does this to the girl, she feel uncomforable.

To Me: Now if that is the case then it's easy to figure out. Don't do the things that you don't want to be done to you. You are no better than anyone else so you treat others with respect and they will treat you the same.

There's probably more cases but these are the ones I have seen.

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Boys do need to stop and girls need to stop too. It's not all fun and games with some people. We both need to learn how to respect one another and know how to be open and know when to say "this is uncomfortable and I want you to stop"

Bye N Have a nice day

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Long story short, guys aren't the only ones.

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YES YES!! I agree with you, it is rare but I used to get rocked by a girl I dated because she knew I wouldn't hit back. I literally was hit so many times by her once it looked like I had just got jumped by 3 people. AND SHE BIT ME!!!!!!

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and contemplated suicide once (And recently again).

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Not the answer!! Trust me when I say you are not alone, alot of people go through this. Things will be better, trust me. You only get this chance once and there is no restart button. I can't say anything to you that's really positive or that will help...I don't know you or your problems....all I can tell you is years ago I had alot of issues, and I overcame them, I feel 100% better.

I don't think boys should hit girls, and I don't think girls should hit boys either (unless it's in play-fighting, with harmless intent). I think it's hypocritical of girls to want to be seen as completely equal to boys and then put themselves in the position of being the 'weaker sex' by insisting that it's ok for girls to hit boys, but not for boys to hit girls.

I think the only time I'd hit a guy is if he sexually harrassed me, because that's pretty much asking for it! Apart from that, I don't think it's very fair because they can't hit back without being accused of being a woman-beater.

As for abusive relationships… scary and painful. My aunt was married to a guy that hit her (now divorced, fortunately). You should never stay with anyone who abuses you like that.

Bex

I was in an abusive relationship once. Someone set us up together, and it was fine for awhile, but then I started getting punched, verbally insulted, etc. It hurt quite a bit. But I didn't hit back. I did a few times, but only to say "Hey, you know that this is how it feels when you do that, right?" and of course, the response was *WHAM*. Later I found out that she thought I had a big ego, and was trying to bring it down, when in fact I have zero self respect, get depressed very easily, and contemplated suicide once (And recently again). She never touched me again.

Long story short, guys aren't the only ones.