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Originally posted by HelloSunshine:
But really who wants to watch some thin girl moaning + getting a 18in dick stuck up her ass?
Sup.
You can't really refer to "pornography" as though it's some monolithic entity. There are hundreds of different niches and each one has a different take on sex, some healthy, some unhealthy, and some more or less neutral.
Amateur pornography, for instance, is a fairly large and popular niche. All of the content is independently produced by individuals or couples, so the porn naturally sends a message about sex "in real life". Whether that message is good or bad is up to the viewer to decide, but at least there's, for the most part, not the artifice in professionally produced pornography. For a lot of couples, pornography is a healthy and enjoyable part of their sex lives--there are more exhibitionists out there than you might think.
In a lot of professionally produced pornography, you could argue that they promote exaggerated, if not unhealthy, perceptions of body image and normal sexuality. I won't deny that--there are a lot of plasticized blondes out there. However, the growth of the internet has enabled content producers to show different women, more natural women, as well. For every bleached blonde there's a girl you'd see walking down the street in any major city.
I don't agree, though, that most porn sends a message about sex "in real life". The interactions are so exaggerated in most cases that a viewer who thinks even remotely critically would understand that porn isn't reality. In reality, a MILF probably wouldn't be willing to get in a van filled with a shady camera crew and fuck a marginally attractive middle-aged dude in the Toys 'R Us parking lot. Just saying.
All that said, porn isn't a creepy thing or an immature thing--it's a human thing.
Damn that's a lot of words about dirty movies.
Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass