MY PARENTS DRIVE ME INSANE!!! ILL SAY SOMETHING I DID 5 YEARS AGO AND THEN THEY WILL GROUND ME!!!!! DO UR PARENTS BUG U????

i hav like asian parents who won't stop bothering me. EVERYTHING we talk about has to do with studying and schoolwork..i didn't care because I get all my work done, but recently it's getting really annoying because it's summer vacation. They sent me to summer school 5 hours away from here to get extra credit for government class for a month and then sent me to my grandparents so i can study for the SAT's there and now they're like "u need to finish all of your applications by the end of summer". They come in my room every 15 minutes asking me what i'm doing and if i'm on the computer, they come and check if i'm on facebook or not. they even read my e-mails. i feel like i'm in disciplinary camp. My mom constantly complains that i blame everything on her, but i don't. she just likes manipulating what i say and tattles to my dad who believes everything she says and if i even try opening my mouth to tell him what i think, he'll just yell at me more. They also complain about my behavior, but guess what? my behavior changes because i'm a human being, a teenager. they still picture me as a 5 year old innocent robot which all asians are. the only reason why i behave more harshly towards them is because whatever they said to me first triggers my nerves and makes me wanna throw something at them or scream at their faces for an hour. they tell me that i'm an embarrasment around others and they want to disown me because i'm not the perfect daughter. my mom just compared me to a random asian mother and daughter she saw at the grocery store who were supposedly real close with their arms linked and gossiping about stuff..I'm not that kind of girl. I'm not like my mom. more like my dad. i'm very inclusive and i care about a lot of things, but don't like to show it immensely. Mom also said that she was ashamed and jealous of those people she saw at the grocery store and wished that i was more like a normal girl..meaning she wishes i was more asian than i am now. and now they're forcing me to go to college that's 5 minutes from home so i get to b stuck with them for another 4 or 6 years. SCREW MY LIFE.

That's terrible! Isn't there something you can do? I'm so sorry about your mum. Does anyone know how your dad treats you, and are there other relatives you'd rather be with, or are you stuck like this?

It doesn't seem right that he treats you like that.

Best of luck

Bex

Yeah well if you ask my opinion, probably none of you know what 'annoying parents' are. My mom was the best person in the world, and in February she died, leaving us with our dad who cusses at us and calls us names and treats us like trash, makes us do all the work, lies about us and Mom on the phone to his friends, used to abuse my mom, thinks he can have whatever he wants, and generally just treats us worse than he would a bucket of cow spit or something.

I guess that everybody's parents get one their nerves at one point or another. I know mine do. My Mom just sits there and asks millions of questions about the most random things, and my Dad yells SOOO much and lectures a lot. and I get into arguments with them, but I guess that's normal for a 13-year-old, and I love my parents none the less, nobody could ever replace them.

My parents are cool. We have a mutual respect thing going which is good. Sometimes my dad gets on my nerves when he goes on and on and on, and I got the point about a million hours ago. He can be very harshly critical. But he's also got a lot of good advice and a great sense of humour. And my mum is like the definition of a lovely supportive mum, I can talk to her about anything.

Put it this way, given the chance to change them at some parent-swapping facility and there was a set of parents in the window that are like the most upmarket flashy amazing parents new and out oday and they're on special offer, I would still stick with my current mum and dad.

I guess I'm unusually close to my parents. If you have major issues with yours and get into arguments, I guess you can only make your points as fairly as you can and try to keep calm. You can't act like a child because as soon as you do that they've won the argument.

Bex

I love my dad but hate him all the same because of my step-mother(the evil one). My dad and step-mom had an affair therefore my parents got a divorce and i think it is my dad's fault. i hate my step-maom because she thinks that the world revolever around her and that no one else matters, plus her daughter is an annoying b****. my mom and i are really close but sometimes we fight and when we do it sucks because she is always right no matter how right i am and then she expects me to be over it even if she hurt my feelings. hey i kind of feel better now.
*Lynn*

Um,first thing,what do you mention that you did?

Yes, one of my parents drives me batty. My Mom. I can't do ANYTHING without, first asking her. I can't do anything at my own decision. She is like trying to be a second me,you know.She says everything for me.Whatever she says,I'd better do.And the list goes on for infinity.
Now,my Dad is cool.He could care less if I went out on a sleepover or went to the movies.He'd let me to anything.
Sometimes parents can be really annoying