ummmmm is ne one a gold member to that?!?! im just super curious.

No way its rediculous to think that you should pay to talk to people who you can locate using the internet. Besides if you want you can send me the 30 or 40 dollars and I can find them and comunicate your messages for you. Because that is what that site does. I know someone who works for them and they are really ripping people off.