Has anyone gone through this I dont know, it just keeps building up inside of me, and i just, wont cry 4 some reason. its like, i want to but i cant! I m his "favorite" only grandaughter, and he loves me more than anyone, at least thats what he says to me when he tells me goodniht when i visit. Any sugestions on how to be uper supportive He one of the first 100 omethin people to o torugh the kind of cure for this kind of cancer he has ecause chemo doesnt work with renal caner. hes lost somuch weight, its starting to scare him. at lease 40 pounds in the last 2 months!

my grandfather died 3 years ago from cancer, you are lucky that you know he has it, my entire family kept it a secret from me about what he had, but i finally figured it out when he lost his hair. i still remember the morning i found out he died, i remember crying as if crying were a reflex, i couldn't help it, i never told him that i loved him, if i could have 2 more minutes with him thats all i would say, well now im bringing my self down with all this talk about him, so im just gonna say i know what you are going through and i hope your grandfather is alright
andrea

I know what it's like to have dying relatives. In my lifetime, I've lost a great grandmother and both grandparents on my mom's side to cancer. My grandmother died... on Labor Day this year, which also happened to be my dad's birthday. So am I supposed to be happy or sad next Sept 1? I have no idea! My other grandfather has skin cancer now they think, but thankfully there's a good chance it can be eliminated w/ surgery. If not, then that's one more person due to whom I feel your pain.

I am sorry. My grandpaw has cancer also. But his isn't that seriouse (yet). Are you religious? If you are pray nad/or ask your friends and family too pray too. If you do god will make the right decision for HIM. It might not be the best for you, but it is better for him.

My keyboard isnt working well these days.

Yes, my Grandfather that I hate has cancer. My mom, grandpa, grandma, other grandma... uncles, aunts, ect., have died or has had cancer. And I'm sorry. But before I say anymore you need to learn how to spell correctley and use some damn periods! I could hardley understand you! I'm not saying you have to be perfect you just need to make it understandable!
-JM