I really need help. My best friend's friend just died because he overdosed on drugs. I have only talked to him on he phone, but it still bothers me. I am mostly concerned about my best friend though. I don't think she is taking it too well. I need help on how to help her through this.

thanx everyone. We just went skating yesterday, and she started getting upset and I told her and she seemed really grateful. It is all thankx to you guys' advice. thanks (tear) I couldn't have done it with out you (sniffle,sniffle). LOL. aoor, I am being a little dramatic

Just be there for her, listen to her, be her crying shoulder(if that's what she needs).
Try to make her relax and let her now that she's not alone, that your their if she needs anything.

sweet day.

I don't know...when I'm upset I want to be touched. So, hug her, pet her hair, hold her hand, whatever. You're best friends, so I don't think you'd have a problem with stuff like that. Some people get really strange about their personal space (I know I do, if I don't know the person REALLY well), though, so it kind of depends on what kind of a person she is. Love, Jen.

Your Welcome! If you ever need anymore help just post me! And It's ok, I was just using my loss as an example. I didn't look for sympathy. Sorry, I don't know what to say!
-JM

well just leave her alone for awhile then take to her as much as you can and be their whenever she needs you ok

thanx. At school me and her cousin (same age as us) are really the only ons talkin to her about it. And I am sorry about your friend

Ok, right now you should leave her alone for awhile. When my friend died from getting hit by a car I just wanted to be alone. People were just over crowding me. She has family to help her. Ask her if she wants to talk. Or just needs a hug. But everyones different. You just need to ask her what she wants and needs ok? Hope I helped you. Good Luck,
-JM