Question:
how do you flirt with a guy and get him to kiss you

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be yourself, and dont wait for him to kiss you, kiss him

I'm 18 and it has been 4 years since I've kissed a guy mainly because noone special is really in my life and I only kiss people that are really special to me. When I was younger I kissed lots of guys and none of them really meant anything. What I learned from it was it's supposed to be something special, something that there should be no doubts about the motive. Since that time I've been very careful about who I've kissed and since then I haven't kissed very many. I was going out with one of my boyfriends for 3 months before we kissed and when we did the first time he asked me if he could kiss me. Since him, I've gone out with others but never felt that it was right to kiss my other boyfriends. So I think it might be right to flirt in some circumstances but if you really want the kiss to be special it might be better to talk about it with the person, that's what made it special for me, because it shows respect for the other person. It seems that when you just flirt, like I did when I was younger, the kisses don't mean squat. But when you're more brave (because talking about it takes a lot more courage than just flirting), and talk about it, the kiss will be more special because the kiss will really mean something to both of you when you both know the intention.

Same here

Don't worry about it. I know how your feeling right now and it seems like there's something wrong with you since you're not getting much attention. I'm 15 and I too have never been kissed and never had a real guy that I can hold on to. But sometimes thats the way it is and I accepted that despite how hard it was. But you don't have to give up on the subject. Just be yourself around the guy and share your interests with him noticing and elaborating what you both have in common. If he is interested in what you're talking about, then keep it up! I've done this before and my friends started getting on my back saying that I was all over him! I said that no I wasn't, but they insisted that I was (after all, I did get his attention). Well that's about it...just be yourself, not some perky **** that is all over a guy she doesn't know (LoL)...Well I hope you know what I mean. As you flirt, you will also get to know him on a personal level and you will be able to decide if you *really* like him. Happy Flirting

Hmmm...I'm an accidental flirt..like I do it and i don't even realize it...so...I don't know...

Why wait for him to kiss you? Just do it spontaneously so you won't have any time to worry about whether you're doing it right.

I have never told myslef I am pretty...I wont because I am not.People always tell me I am a huge flirt! I dont see that. So i guess it comes naturally so pretty much be urself it will happen! Sooner or Later it will happen! and the kiss thing dont ask me I am 16 and still havent ki8ssed it will happen when it happens...I guess.

just be yourself. have confidence. do what billy said. all the suggestions have seemed pretty good.

Be yourself, and if a guy doesn't appreciate that, he's not worth anything. Also, you don't need to kiss someone until both of you are ready. Just tell him you want to kiss him, and see his reaction. That's probably the best thing to do. (That's what my bf and I did. I told him I had had a dream and he finally figured out that it had been about him kissing me, but we didn't kiss for another 3 or 4 months and I'm glad, because I wasn't emotionally ready.)

I've been trying for 3 years July 6th to be subtle and give hints then I moved on to hints I thought were obvious. I'm going to see this guy wednesday and we flirt a lot already (we dated for 6 months and now we are like best-friends) I don't plan to be subtle. I'd like to just be alone with him I don't really wanna do anything kiss maybe but, nothing more.

you are 13,maybe you dont have to learn that yet?

as a guy, we're pretty stupid when it comes to subtleness, be forward. The last 2 sugestions below sound pretty good...

first, get his attention with words, then add the hands. if ur all touchy feely then he'll probably get the message. by hands i mean like nudge him, mess wit his hair, play wit his shirt etc.

Just think of something smart and witty to say and turn on your charm.*wink* Basically, be yourself and have enough confidence to joke almost sexually with a guy...dont let it go too far'.) Just keep telling youself you are hot and make him believe you.

you don't ask, it just sorta happens.