I have a 9 year old daughter, she will not listion
to me she is taking a anti-deppesent now, it helps a little. She has been throw a devorice and , re-marriage to a man that she really doesn't care for but she has never really minded me even when her dad and i were together. Do any one have any addvice? [EMAIL][/EMAIL]

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you need to ask her why she doesn't like the person you married. There might really be something wrong. But if there isn't then she needs to respect him and listen to both of you. It can be very hard but she still needs to have respect for people. And if you spoil her then like the other person said "don't." When I was little my parents never let me get away with anything. And I'm a great kid... well, person. It's not always easy to discipline your children but it's part of being a parent. There is always a reason for behaviors. There might be something that is really bothering her - well, obviously the divorce might be one thing that is bothering her. But I am talking about her feelings. Yeah... she didn't like what happened but how does that make her feel. she might feel well, anything. Talk with her (not to her), ask her what's bothering her, and ask her why she won't listen to you.

And after all of that if she still isn't listening you need to let her know who the parent is and who the child is.

im 17...ive been through that crap again and again and a WHOLE LOT more...do you spoil her?..if you do then DONT...sounds like she needs some shapen up...be more athoritive...what does she do that she doesnt listen?

Uh... how old are you?
I wouldn't say what I think just yet. It may come off as too mean.