we have been going out for three years now, and I think that when we get outta highschool, we will get married. I am not sure what his parents think of this, but my parents love him to death. Jake is 17 and I am 15. For some reason, this site puit my gender as male, but I am a girl....anyways, do you think it will last?

Who are you to say she is going to be miserable?

ok, if you want her to be miserable so be it...

I say again, DO NOT BASE YOUR LIFE OFF OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY!! Live your life for you dammit!

you can ask your boyfriend something. he can just as easily lie to you as anyone else. his friends may tell the truth.

yes you are too young. a vast majority of teen marriages end within the first couple years. its just a waste of time and money.

You know what. You need to do whatever feels right for you. Don’t go behind his back to ask his friends questions. If you ever have a problem ask HIM. Honesty is the only way to go in a relationship. How would you feel if he asked your friends what you said about him behind your back? It’s just not a good thing to do if you really believe he is the one you want to marry. I have to agree with Jay, if you are happy and this is something you really want then go for it. Screw what other people say and just follow your heart. Just don’t forget to stop every once in a while to consider reality. I know how easy is can be to get lost in the idea of paradise. I wish you two the best of luck!

Per7ie

i think you guys are still too young to get married. cmon...you're only 17,18 when you graduated from high school. there's so many things that you guys still haven't learned. How are you guys gonna pay the bills? where are you gonna live? are you gonna work or go to school? these are just some questions you need to think off.

if he loves you, really loves you then see if he really wants to marry you then chech out what he says about you to his friends, and people who sit near him, then think it over carfully, remember everything that he has done for you look at things that were really suspicius to you and ask his friends about them, ask your friends about them and find out everything you can youd be surprised at how many marriages go up in flames from the little things

i thought like that about my boyfriend a long time ago, he said he'd want to marry me, i said i'd want to marry him, but i wanted to wait until i had graduated out of college first. a year later he dropped me like a sack of wet potatoes. since then i realized that there really is no need to get married. if you love the person that much, everything can wait. shower yourself with his love while it lasts.

and why would you want to marry a guy who's close to his sexual peak? even though he says he loves you, he'll take an interest in someone else. i know this from experience. you are too young to be thinking about marriage. your going to miss out on alot of things most single teenage girls get to enjoy.

Only if you want it to...dont ever let anyone tell you your too young or too naive. If you want it bad enough, both of you, and you really do respect and love each other...there's no doubt in my mind you guys will be happy. Good Luck - JaYofHM