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Registered: January 25, 2003
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how do u really know if u r in luv? every body wants 2 know?
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Registered: July 14, 2003
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um, jamica, this thread is OVER A YEAR OLD.
Registered: June 28, 2003
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I agree with everything that Monster says... Love totally makes you feel good and absolutely brings out the good in you. I love this certain person and I got jealous.... though i know that Love is never jealous. I am also trying t get over it.. Smile
Love is everything that maes you feel that beauty is all around you. It lifts yur spirits and makes you feel good even when things go wrong. I also agree with monster when she says that Love is honesty, respect and trust. When you love someone, you also have to express how you feel about that person. Love doesnt happen overnight. It takes long years to make it happen. Whatever happens...if someone truly loves you and appreciates you for who ou are, that someone is worth all the treasure in the world. Not many people would love somone truly and completely.
Ok, maybe I am getting emotional but I love Love somuch, I want to share it to the world!

**** Tell someone you love him/her and let them know how you feel about them before the moment just passes you by***
Registered: June 08, 2003
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there are so many forms of "love " frienship love , family love , and well LOVElove . LOVElove to me is : an overwhelming concern for an individual with no regards on what you get in return.
i tell all my friends that i love them all the time and i do i realy do. there is one guy that i say "i love you " to that i dont mean i love you cuz your my friend i truely love him because he is a great person overall , and i want to be with him forever . i know alot of people are thinking bull S***** ya well i know i am 14 and me and him dont even live in the same state im in ca and hes in misurri . but ya it works. i do love him , at this age i can see us together forever , and though that sounds extream , i heard of marrages where they talked for a week b4 they were married and the marrage lasted 52 years !greg is the guy im in love with . jessie , jayson , ariana , ashley , candice , they are all people i love ! love is something that should be all inclusive ! thats how i see it but ya ! so ya i done
Registered: June 30, 2002
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Teddy, why in the world are you in so afraid of that guy and his girl. It seems like you want to chill out or go out on a date with him right. Yeah we all know Wink . Don't be shy about it because just by sitting down next to him will help a lot. Talk to him because his intentions of helping you show an act of courtsey more than as lending a helping hand. I have a friend that I think i love but don't think should go in that direction yet at first seemed to require a lot of attention but then relaxed a little. Start small then go for the big one. Your going to get him no matter what even if he's the hottest guy in the school Cool
Registered: January 03, 2003
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hey-
I don't really know. I stopped loving my x-bf after we dated a little over a year. I just started getting annoyed w/him. I stop liking people when I find out I don't like how they're acting, or what they do. (like drugs) Razz
Registered: December 29, 2002
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How do you STOP liking or loving (I really don't know what I feel for him) someone?
I wrote another post about this on January 28, 2003 06:56 PM, it explian more about my case so if anyone could look for it on here and if anybody could read it and then tell me what I could do then that will be GREAT and I will be so Thankful PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! I don't know what to do and I need someone's help. Please!!!!
WEll Thanks for reading!!!!
Bye N Have a nice day
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Registered: January 01, 2002
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When I was reading that post about love being a warm feeling in the pit of your stomach . . . well, I had to disagree. Then I thought well if it's not a warm feeling in the pit of your stomach, what type of feeling is it? And this is what I came up with: when you're in love you don't feel a warm feeling in the pit of your stomach, you feel a your mouth curving upward. You feel a smile come over your face. When you see him/her you smile, even if your day hasn't been all that great.

Well, those are just some thoughts.

Robbi

P.S. When you're in love, you'll know it.
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Registered: October 30, 2002
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I think you know what wuvvy-wuv is when you start spelling it "love."
Registered: January 03, 2003
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hey- that's just my opinion, but i'm glad you agree with me. Smile
Registered: October 10, 2002
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Well then, coolfgirl, I am in love! I LOVE YOU WILL!
Registered: January 30, 2003
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Love is a piano dropped from a four story window and you were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. It's not knowing what is on the other side of the hill, yet knowing that you want to get to the otherside. It's scary, exciting, comforting,and joyous. Love leaves you vulnerable. It leaves you vulnerable because you want to be vulnerable. It makes you unaware of the outside world. Then again, love can't be defined like any other word, but it isn't hard to know when you are in love. You just know.
Registered: January 03, 2003
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when you're in love you can't stop thinking about him/her. It's a warm feeling you have in the pit of your stomache when you think of him/her. Smile Cool
Registered: July 25, 2002
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how do you knoe when you are in luv? Well, I expect that it's different for everybody. but for my first luv, I realized that i was... in luv when i saw who he was and who i was, we were outside each other, but when you can honestly sat I would jump in front of a moving vehicle to save that person, that you would luv that person if they gained 300 lbs. then, I believe you have either taken infatuatuion to a new level, or you are truly in luv. Out of all the time that you spend with that person one moment can change the course of you life, one moment sticks out in your mind. And for meeh it was at a bonfire sitting beside him, feeling his warmth and his body next to mine, not the heat of the fire. the sun was setting and he had something in his eyes that I had never seen before he looked at meeh and smiled. that's when i officially knew.
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Registered: December 13, 2002
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no no no!
That is not at all how i see love. It's not getting mad and hurting when your not with them, it's getting excited because you know you've got all the time in the world to spend with them. it's not getting embarrassed when you do silly things around them, it's being so comfortable with them that it doesn't matter because you know they'll still love you. And it's not jealousy when you see them talking to another girl, because you know they will always come back to you.
TO me love is not a feeling, it's a knowing. You love him 'just because' and you can't quite put your finger on it.
Love is caring SO much about someone and not just because it makes YOU feel like a good person. You only want them to be happy, even if it makes you not so happy!
Love is being able to fight because you're not afraid that they'll hate you and break up with you if you voice your opinion.
Love is honesty, respect, and trust. Love is compromise. Love is not instant, it grows over time.
Love is wanting to do things for someone that you wouldn't normally want to do just because you know it will make them happy. Love brings out the best in you, and makes you want to be a better person just so you can hear them say how proud they are of you. There is no pressure and no rushing when you are in love.
I know that this was pretty long but i just had to say it, because i think that you guys have got the wrong message. Going crazy when your not with someone and 'loving' them so much that it hurts like hell and 'loving' someone so much that you never want to fight with them and never want to make a mistake is not love, it is infatuation, obsession, lust.
I think that i am on my way to falling in love! Wink Roll Eyes
Registered: January 03, 2003
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When you're in love, you think about that person all the time. when you aren't with the person you love, you have an empty feeling in the pit of your stomache. Smile
Registered: August 31, 2002
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When you really love someone, it's not just a feeling in your stomache. It's all over, it hurts you to think of just one day without them. It's when no matter what you always get back together and you can't ever see them enough. You will know when you are in love. It never goes away and you care the world for that person and you want to do everything for them.
Registered: January 02, 2002
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I think that "how do you know when you're in love?" is one of the most asked questions. When you're in love you just know. So many people think they are in love and then when they break up with the person they no longer are in love with them. But love is forever and you cant contain it. I fell in love with one of my closest friends almost 4 years ago and we have faught and gone through alot of really dramatic issues. Last year we got in a huge fight and didn't talk for 10 months. But in the end, when we finally made up, i still loved him and i still do now. When you have found mr./mrs. right you'll know. I know lots of people say that, but its true. When you fall in love its so totally unlike anything you'ver ever felt. You get the butterflys and you think about the person lots and they just make you fell so good and you just know. Cool
Registered: October 12, 2002
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I believe that if your truly in love, you would be willing to marry them and spend your entire life with that person.
If you think you love someone but you aren't willing to marry them it is my opinion that you just have an infatuation with them!!

~Jade
Registered: January 29, 2003
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Love is an emotion, just like any other, your ideas about it are different than someone elses, the way you experience it and your experiences with it are different than anyone elses, thats the whole mystery behind feelings...so if you think youre in love, youre in love, and no one can disagree with you because its your feelings and not theirs

-Craig
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