Is it just me or does it seem like young kids are losing there virginity at around 9 yrs old??? What happened to our dignity if your really that bored go chase a snail. Im not a virgin but i didnt lose my virginity at age 9. I waited till i was 14 yrs old . Its something you can never have back and boys and girls are just throwing it away. All you guests, Sign up and join our disscussion

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It's interesting to see all of the debate about what is "too young" to have sex. I'm 20 now, and when I was 14, none of my friends nor myself were having sex.

A lot of people in middle and in the early years of high school say they're "in love" with their partner. I get where that's coming from, you have a deep interest in them. Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but I think 14, 15, 16, are still too young to have sex.

I understand how it may seem fun and cool, and all your friends are doing it. But realistically, most likely, they aren't. Kids like to bend and twist the truth so that they can be cool.

There's reasons why minors (people under 18) aren't legally allowed to have sex. It comes down to maturity and responsibility. You can't e even get a job or your license when you're 15-do you think you're mature enough to have sex, have a baby?

It's really intriguing to see the times have changed in just the past few years.

I am a virgin. i am 15 years old and all of my friends have had sex except for me. i beleive that i am not ready. My friends all say OMG its so good try it try it. but i say to them no because im not ready. i say that sex is okay at my age as long as you are ready. i agree with the person below me because it is the right age. all teenagers want to explore life and sexaul things in there tenn years.

well i lost mine at the age of 15 and i dont think it was too young. but any younger then that is just wrong and what person would want to have sex with a nine year old it disgusting . but if your 15 or older it all depends on the person

im 14 and no im not a virgin, i was raped at 8 so that took everything away from me, if i could go back in time and fix it i know i would be a virgin now because my outlook on life would be different. in a way i agree with you all. 9 is WAY to young

I think that it should be kept for the person that you love..especially if you meet the person that you love and hurt them because they are still a virgin and your not.
but it can also be vice versa to..

the fact is though, we're in the 21st century and to be realistic your not really going to find that many virgins over the age of like 14.
if you get lucky then ya...or if there like mormen or something

Hmmmmm well i think since there is a high in peer pressure these days, I'm not surprised that kids are losing their virginity at an age like 9 or 10. I'm still a virgin and I'm 17. I think part of the reason for this matter is that parents are not instilling what's right and wrong.

I am a month away from 20, and still a virgin.

And look at me, I'm still cool...

It's talking about personal truth. I highly doubt there's one all-encompassing truth that applies equally to everyone. It makes sense to me.

Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it.

......wtf? why not somthing like....
Doubt those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it.
belive only what you belive to be, right, or wrong.

What the FUCK!
14 is way fucking TO YOUNG!

Im 15, and everybody around me is doing it. I feel like i have to do you.
Same thing with smoking and stuff.

Yes, young people are losing their virginty.
WHY! It makes ME SO upset.

Sure, go right ahead.

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I'm not about to judge anyone, but if you don't know what love is, you probably shouldn't be making it.

wow....thats a rockin quote...may i use that? lol.

Sex at nine? With whom, a Catholic priest? It's rather surprising that kids even know what sex is at that point in life, but not terribly surprising that they have it, considering that kids are reaching puberty earlier and earlier.

Personally, I think sex requires love to be truly meaningful. If you think sex is for reproduction alone, obviously you won't share my views, but I see sex as something more. Without love, sex is just an act. Big deal. And I can say with certainty that, for the most part, nine year olds can't comprehend love. That comes later, much later. Most high school seniors aren't even that mature.

You know what's kind of funny, I never even considered having sex until my sophomore year in high school. And then I was too immature to know what I wanted. It's a far cry from all these kids becoming sexually active in middle school. When I was in junior high, I wouldn't even hang out with girls, and my luck in dating them was...non-existent. Pathetic, really. Meh, things change. Funny how different it is only four or five years later.

But I digress. I'm not about to judge anyone, but if you don't know what love is, you probably shouldn't be making it.

Kids are losing their virginity at too young of an age, and 14 is still very young. I don't believe in waiting until marriage for sex. However I believe in waiting until the person is responsible enough to accept the possible outcomes.

Media is all to blame, ??
maybe, maybe not. im my opion, national studies are show that boys and girls are hanging out with older teens evey year, and each year it gets worse, i almost lots twice before i finaly did with my future wife. the fist time when i was 8 and the second when i was 14, both times it was by older wemon. the first time two 16 year old girls. aka my babe sitters, and the second time a 21 year old. aka my brothers babe sitter, both times seemed like i was at a disatvantage but i will only admit to the second one being pretty much my falt.
--point being is that the younger the more ignorant they or we where and that cause alot of stress for idot youth (before 15 years old)
i mean o im in love so its ok if i do that or this or if he took advantage of me its ok cause i love him and he love me.
wait im way off subject. ,,, never mind you get my point. ingnorence is to blame.

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at least be married

at least!?! damn, i don't even want to know what "and the most" would be!

nah, i dunno how i feel on this issue...i got active young too..i think it depends on the maturity of the youth i guess...

yes young people are losing their virginty at a young age. fourteen is a pretty young age too.i belive that you should at least be married before having sex.there is no question about it.

your one to talk you were 14 thats pretty young.....