I have a problem with my atitude where I'm always bossy and want people to do things my way.I think it comes from me not having very many friends and wanting to be the natural born leader I was born as.My atitude is getting steadly better but still comes back for about 3wks.-6mos.If anyone out there can proide some help, please contact me here.Over and out.

*attitude

i want to be respected when i say I,,,,no one knows what is good for me besides I...if i have any questions i'll let you know

I think this is, like one of the only things I haven't tried.So, I guess I'll try it.

I have no trouble creating a positive aditude but the problem is that I do it all the time, trying to get people to like me for who I am(as that is who I am).So now what do I do?

Being the leader doesn't mean you don't listen to others opinions. Give their ideas a shot and be posative, but other than that, being a leader shouldn't be a problem. You just need to create a good atmosphere.

You could ask others what thier opinion is. Or, you could not talk as much, then you can't boss everyone around as much. Lots of luck

Thanks very much, problem is that I already tried it.

You said it yourself. "Natural born leader I was born as". Use that.