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Registered: July 31, 2002
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Registered: October 22, 2007
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quote: Originally posted by tigerstyle09: I thought about death before. Right after my friend got killed in a horrible motorcycle accident, i thought my life was over, i blamed myself for what happened. But now i know that everything happens for a reason, it was just his time to go. I then turned to God for guidence, and without any trouble, he helped me get through this tough time.
Tiger your not the only one who misses Jerry and we have to remind ourselves that he is in a better place
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Registered: June 17, 2008
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I thought about death before. Right after my friend got killed in a horrible motorcycle accident, i thought my life was over, i blamed myself for what happened. But now i know that everything happens for a reason, it was just his time to go. I then turned to God for guidence, and without any trouble, he helped me get through this tough time.
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Registered: February 27, 2003
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quote: Why end your life when you haven't live a lot of it.
While I personally agree with you here tiger I have to point out that to someone considering suicide the fact that they haven't yet lived life isn't always comforting, to some it just sounds like more opportunity for their life to go downhill.
"I know of no safe repository of the ultimate power of society but the people. And if we think them not enlightened enough, the remedy is not to take power from them, but to inform them by education." Thomas Jefferson
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Registered: October 22, 2007
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quote: Originally posted by tigerstyle09: Why end your life when you haven't live a lot of it. If you would just believe and trust in God, he will help you through whatever kind of crisis that you are in.
Amen tiger
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Registered: June 17, 2008
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Why end your life when you haven't live a lot of it. If you would just believe and trust in God, he will help you through whatever kind of crisis that you are in.
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Registered: October 22, 2007
Posts: 316
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quote: Originally posted by silverjackey: quote: Suicide would just be a waste. If one is at the point where his life means so little he could throw it away and not care, why not use that and do things you wouldnt ordinarily do, set things straight, start a revolution or what have you. Suicide is a non constructive waste of a chance. Death is not the end. It's a new beginning for those who believe in Jesus Christ.
even if you belive in the word of God suicide is an unforgiveable sin which means your going to hell
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Registered: June 05, 2008
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quote: Suicide would just be a waste. If one is at the point where his life means so little he could throw it away and not care, why not use that and do things you wouldnt ordinarily do, set things straight, start a revolution or what have you. Suicide is a non constructive waste of a chance.
Death is not the end. It's a new beginning for those who believe in Jesus Christ.
</b><i>We never know the worth of water till the well is dry.</i>
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Registered: June 05, 2008
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Honestly, I'm not going to spend time reading this bulletin. But yeah, I've attempted suicide. Downed two bottles of pills, ended up in the hospital.
</b><i>We never know the worth of water till the well is dry.</i>
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Registered: April 17, 2008
Posts: 12
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hey there canvas...lissen up and listen wel... nothing in this world's worth committing suicide for...you'll just be gving in to all those ppl who've ever tomented u n i dont think u'd want tht...u shd make a list of things that make u happy n shud do atleast 3 or 4 for the days u're really depressed...i hope u can confide in me....every time i wake upo...i see hope...no matter how pathetic my life's going at one pt in life , i too hit rock bottom and struggled to be happy...ppl used to laugh at me...make fun of me and they still do...even my best friends...but just hang in there man...look in the mirror ...list down as many good qualities in your self as you can...make a concsious effort to be happy....just laugh out loud...real loud....smile at a stranger...make a list of the compliment u've ever received and read them to yourself when ur sad....write in a diary when u're really annoyed...cry it out...u'll feel better...but dont keep crying...look for the positive side of things...read jokes...compose a poem...try to meditate fo 5 mins each day...male a list of things u r thankful for each day and live in the moment...god's created each one of us for a reason....to enjoy life and to learn how to live it....so just smile even when u feel horrible inside...if u r a girl, put some hot clothes on and look your best...clik pics of urself and admire them...sing to urself ....if u liked my advice....post a msg back to me....im always here for u,k??just let me know when ur feeling low....remember wake up in the morning happy...continue to be happy the whole day...try to go thru one day without frowning and see how much better u'll feel...just embrace urself and keep me posted on how u feeling...take care...cheers.. 
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Registered: December 07, 2007
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Here's the dealio. Suicide is a very serious thing. For those of you who wish for death, to disappear, please rethink your choice. By attempting to commit suicide, you are actually hurting more than just yourself. You are hurting many people around you EMOTIONALLY. Trust me, emotional pain is a tough kick in the a**. You can also hurt the ones you don't know when they hear your story. Suicide is a very scary idea, and everyone goes through tough times, and yeah, some will have to face the rockier roads than others. But there are always an alternative to what you think is your solution. You can always turn to a family member, a friend, teachers, therapist, or anyone you can confide in. For those of you who have considered suicide as an easy way out, I hope you guys really do reconsider because there really are so many different ways to deal with your problems. I just hope you guys will understand, and my message got to you guys.
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Registered: March 18, 2008
Posts: 7
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I'm sorry to hear that so many of you are having suicidal thoughts/tendencies. I so know how you feel. My teen years were filled with these thoughts. If you can try to talk to a professional like a school counselor or a therapist. This might sound drastic but seriously what about suicide is not drastic?
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Registered: November 12, 2007
Posts: 9
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i'll survive too
i think everyone can.
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Registered: November 12, 2007
Posts: 9
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i'll survive too
i think everyone can.
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Registered: February 29, 2008
Posts: 24
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This subject is pretty crazy to talk about, considering that those who enjoy life couldn't even imagine killing themself. However, once going through depression, I realize why such thoughts of death come up into people's heads.
Ever since moving into CA from GA, my life has changed drastically. I had to make new friends, adapt to living in a new area, and so on. At first, I thought the change would be a good thing: A fresh start might be good change since things looked like they were going downhill in GA. To my surprise, my life still felt like it was going downhill in CA. I never established that core of good friends, I never felt comfortable walking around in high school, and my self respect has at times been questionable. Three years after the move, I started getting pretty depressed. After school I would just drive into my driveway and stay in my truck, contemplating what was wrong with me. Some days, I blamed myself physically, other days mentally. There were times I would try to trick my mind that everything was ok and all I had to do was act more optimistic in order to enjoy life as much as I did back in GA (the days which I ironically termed the good ol' days, though I'm only 17). Then, one day the idea of suicide came up. The once lucrative subject didn't seem so crazy anymore.. Death was actually a possbility. Luckily for me, I made it through this phase without apllying any physical damage to myself.
Unfortunately, this story doesn't have a happy ending. Even today at times I woll stell feel depressed, but I endure the mental pain and still further await better days to come. I'm going to stay tough; I WILL SURVIVE.
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Registered: November 12, 2007
Posts: 9
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i thought about killing myself so many times for almost 2 years. but now i don't ever think about it, and when i think about how i wanted to, it makes me realize how selfish the thoughts were sometimes. and i am forever grateful for the people i have in my life for being those last thoughts that pulled me through all those nights. i now appreciate every second i have of my life.
i believe you should surround yourself with people you love. do things that make you happy and that are productive. there are so many people out there willing to help, so just ask.
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Registered: December 14, 2007
Posts: 131
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quote: Originally posted by reaching_limits: i suffer from depression still today. my best friend does also. this makes it even harder on my life. she means the world to me especially since my home life isn't very good. so since she is always contemplating suicide and is always down i try to always seem happy and be a peppy person and hide my own depression. she still to this day does not notice what i am going through. it's very hard for me to sit around with no one to talk to. so, in turn, i have attempted suicide and overdosed. now, i am sufferin from medical issues because of it. but i cannot tell my parents from fear of abandonment and shame. i've lost all reason to live. no true friends, a bad home life, moved from my old home a while back, my brother will not talk to me, my grandma is dying, everyone at my school is spreading horrid rumors about me, my parents put me down all the time, i lost the love of my life, and my friends just lay their problems on me and don't notice how bad i am hurting. i'm not sure if posting this is going to help. but i think i needed to tell someone.
Hi limits. This sounds a lot like a friend of mine (heck I suspect you're him, it's all ready happened once before - I wonder if "almighty" means anything to you?). Anyways, I just wanted to say that you shouldn't give-up. I used to be just like you. But trust me, happiness isn't really that far away. Life's a rocky road, and every valley needs a hill, right? Right now you're at a valley. But you gotta keep on going, because you're going to reach a hill eventually. If you play your cards right, you might just end-up staying there  Trust me, I know pain. Oh God, do I know it well. I lived in a terrain most other people only visited. I've written a lifetime's worth about it. But no matter how bad your life at home is, please, please please please, do not be ashamed to tell your parents. Tell them. They might be in denial, and completely ignore the situation, but you have to try.It's easier to say it's impossible than it is to try. Even if the thing with your parents doesn't work-out the way you hoped it would, seek professional help. A teacher, or a counselour. Someone you think you could trust. Also, try making yourself feel better. Do you enjoy anything in particular, like sports, or art, or maybe writing or music? Video games, maybe? There's some pretty funny, uplifting stuff out there. Sam and Max did wonders for me. Or curling up in bed with a movie! With a hot cup of coffee or tea or soup! Avoid the depressing stuff, stick to the funny things. What kind of movies or games or music do you like? Or books! There's some ridiculously funny, touching, or just plain old "Dude that's me!" books out there. Don't cave-in. Try. I don't know why things are bad in your family life, or between you and your brother, and your friends are total knuckleheads (I know that one), but you're bound to become happy soon. All it takes is trying. Have you ever heard of Robert De Bruce and the Spider? Don't give up. That way the bad guys win. And you're not one of them.
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Registered: February 06, 2008
Posts: 3
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i suffer from depression still today. my best friend does also. this makes it even harder on my life. she means the world to me especially since my home life isn't very good. so since she is always contemplating suicide and is always down i try to always seem happy and be a peppy person and hide my own depression. she still to this day does not notice what i am going through. it's very hard for me to sit around with no one to talk to. so, in turn, i have attempted suicide and overdosed. now, i am sufferin from medical issues because of it. but i cannot tell my parents from fear of abandonment and shame. i've lost all reason to live. no true friends, a bad home life, moved from my old home a while back, my brother will not talk to me, my grandma is dying, everyone at my school is spreading horrid rumors about me, my parents put me down all the time, i lost the love of my life, and my friends just lay their problems on me and don't notice how bad i am hurting. i'm not sure if posting this is going to help. but i think i needed to tell someone.
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Registered: January 25, 2008
Posts: 1
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hey my name is sarah olsen and im here to tell you that i was once depressed and i got scared that i would get beaten up into parts because of my friends so i got scared and did not want to live so i slit my wrist and tryed to sufficate my self
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Registered: February 06, 2007
Posts: 71
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