Ok here's the story and the whole reason I need your help. You see there's this girl (let's call her Megan) and I really like her and everything and she really likes me. Sounds pretty simple right? Well it's not. Her parents are total control freaks and Megan can't date until she is 16 which is not until Christmas. I don't know if I want to wait around for her for that long because I do have my eyes on another girl who is allowed to date. Any advice from anyone out there would be greatly appreciated.
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hmmm...I think that if you are already considering that she is not worth waiting for for such a small period of time then you should just let it go. If you are interested on another girl, that can date, then maybe you should try and see if that works. If on the other hand, you reconsider and realize that "Megan" is infact worth waiting for, then just be patient, be her friend, and wait to see what happens. Either way, be realistic and don't set yourself goals that you know you won't committ to. Well then, good luck and hope you make the right choice.
"In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
quote:Originally posted by WJ: go with the other girl til x mas then dump her and take megan
Wow. Someone has no morals.
If you're not serious enough to see only one girl as your main interest, I'd say wait and dont date either of them until something makes you like one single person.
"Thou call'dst me dog before thou hadst a cause; But, since I am a dog, beware my fangs." -Shakespeare [The Merchant of Venice, Act 3 Scene 3]
It kinda depends on the girls. What's "Megan's" personality? Is she sweet, and easy to be around, or is she flirty and suductive? It really comes down to which one is "the one." Personally, I don't date. I used to when I was younger, but I realize now that there is a better way. Waiting on God's choice of a partner. I know I wouldn't want my future husband kissing all over some other girl. I want that to be special for me, and only me. But that's my personaly conviction. But anyway, there has to be a reason for her parent's not letting her date till she's. And I would certainly respect a guy more if he respected my parent's wishes, and wasn't always trying to ge t me to disobey. Do what you know is right! Kati
Hehe...you're 14 and you've got a SIXTEEN yr old girl who's interested in you? Wow that's very rare and you'd better hold on to that. If you REALLY like her and you know that she likes you, why would you ditch her like that? I'm sorry but if you can't wait for her then maybe you aren't such a good match after all, sounds like you've got some growing up to do.
Stay friends with all the girls you like! Get to know all of them, and have a great time with them.. before you know it, Christmas will roll around and you will see whom ur heart really belongs to...lol.
'i love you' is eight letters long, but so is 'bullshit'.
If you really liked Megan you would wait. If you go for the available 2nd choice girl you're just like every other desperado. And you aren't sending a very good vibe out, with the whole manly picture and the "I don't know if I want to wait around for her". It's not all about you, think of how Megan will feel if you just opt for the easier girl.
Obviously, you won't be taking the relationship seriously since you already have your eyes "on another girl that is allowed to date." Hell, you're only a fourteen year-old kid so don't be such a drama queen - it's not becoming.
"We could all have been killed - or worse, expelled." (Hermione Granger)
OK. There are two things that are wrong with this. 1. I wouldn't suggest putting your whole name on an Internet forum and number 2. We don't need to know your name. -DWR
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