my friend and i were talking about sex and were still virgins. we think were ready but she is 13 and i'm 14. we dont know if we should wait or do it because we feel ready.

help

Am I ready to have sex? You're ready to have sex when you stop asking that question.

three words for you and your friend: TRUE LOVE WAITS
true love waits states that you will stay pure for the person that u marry. The moment that i got my first boyfriend we both bought true love waits rings b/c we didn't want ppl to think that something was going on that wasn't because we both knew that we were going to b together for a while.

besides guys think that it's really cool when a girls haven't had their first kiss at 16 but from the way u r talking it sounds like it's a little late for that.

Having sex just because "you're ready" is a pretty dumb excuse if you ask me. It should be about a relationship and committment between two people who love each other, not just trying to prove you can handle something or are mature enough.

Heh heh.

i cant, another thread decided i couldn't have guns.

Kill this thread.

I don't think that it's that big of a deal if u do have sex. I mean, come one. It's not going to kill u if u'r not a virgin anymore. But, it all depends on with who u'r gonna do it with. If u'r going to do it with some @$$hole, go get a life. If it's someone that's hot or someone that's worth losing u'r virganity for, go ahead and do it. And, if u please, put it on camera and send it to me on: xxxandme@yahoo.com
Later.

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Anyway... what's the point of answering your question. If we think it's cool, what are you going to do? Go find some random guy to ****? Do you even have a boyfriend? What's more. Why the **** do you even care. Go... masterbate or join a clergy for all I care.

Dear Kristyn,

How are you? Just because you feel ready does not mean you have to rush out and try it. At your age there could be a high chance that you may regret it or that you may do it with a guy that is not suitable. My advice would be to play it safe and wait. Enjoy being a teenager.

Kind regards,
Steve Smith

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well its kinda a goofy question i think if you want to then do it and if your asking these jerks on the internet for advice on if you should or not then your probally not ready and i think you know that but if you need even more advice try www.adviceforallages.com i dont know how good the advice is (never having to use it my self) but you can give it a shot

Good for you. I suppose you want a gold star now, don't you?

Please, go find someone who cares.

Does it look like we care? Go and do whatever the **** you want.

No one is going to stop you but yourselves.

There is already a million of this same kind of topic, do not post repeats.

Go figure out your own problems, that's why we have brains. To think. Use it.
-Sunset