I don't know any gays who act like that. In fact, I know one guy who's currently agonizing about how to express his feelings to another guy. There's no ass-grabbing there.

Simply because you have a small-minded idea of what the "majority" is (by the way, go look up the real definition for majority, not your pathetic one) doesn't mean all gays automatically act like jerks. So you got hit on by a gay guy. Did you ever explain that you were straight? Maybe he was doing it just to piss you off. Heck, if I knew a guy like you, I'd probably act gay just to piss him off. Of course, I do that a lot to people I don't like. It makes life more enjoyable when you bug the intolerant ones.

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Originally posted by freedomordeath:
Suddenly it went from a few people to one guy that hit on you. More importantly though, you proceeded to stereotype according to one guy that was inappropriate, gay or straight.

Yeah, but that's how it started, the others I don't like (not only because of that).

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Originally posted by yogore:
It's not inappropriote because it's gay, it's inappropriote because it's unwanted. it just so happens you only want girls to touch you.

And it's unwanted because it's gay.

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i'm guessing you're going on stereotypes. How do all of the gay people act? Since all straight people dress, talk and act the same, we know that all gay people must act, talk and dress the same.

First of all, I said the majority, and second, almost every gay person I've met acts this way, hence the majority.

Darth, you brought up the whole issue when
(I believe) duck asked if you knew any gays and you said:

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I know a few gay people, and I don't like them.

Suddenly it went from a few people to one guy that hit on you. More importantly though, you proceeded to stereotype according to one guy that was inappropriate, gay or straight.

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Also, if a girl did that to me, it wouldn't be unwanted so yes, it's inappropriate because it's gay.

It's not inappropriote because it's gay, it's inappropriote because it's unwanted. it just so happens you only want girls to touch you.

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I also don't like the way they act, talk, or dress (the majority of them, at least).

i'm guessing you're going on stereotypes. How do all of the gay people act? Since all straight people dress, talk and act the same, we know that all gay people must act, talk and dress the same.

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Originally posted by freedomordeath:
But I still don't understand why you're trying to make this one, apparently jerk, into the whole gay community?

I'm not, I also don't like the way they act, talk, or dress (the majority of them, at least).

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Originally posted by yogore:
That sounds more like a heterosexual joke than something a gay guy would do. he could be gay, but I wouldn't believe it based on this one incident. if you're so upset about it you should tell someone at your school because that's inappropriote. It's inappropriote because it's unwanted physical contact, not because it's gay

Well, he has a boyfriend now, and they make out in the hallway, so I'd say he's gay. Also, if a girl did that to me, it wouldn't be unwanted so yes, it's inappropriate because it's gay.

So you're telling me that whole incident and your claim that he wasn't joking (even if he was gay) makes this invalid:

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But I still don't understand why you're trying to make this one, apparently jerk, into the whole gay community?

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If that's what you call him grabbing my ass and trying to kiss me.

That sounds more like a heterosexual joke than something a gay guy would do. he could be gay, but I wouldn't believe it based on this one incident. if you're so upset about it you should tell someone at your school because that's inappropriote. It's inappropriote because it's unwanted physical contact, not because it's gay

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Originally posted by freedomordeath:
Great way to ignore EVERYTHING ELSE I said.

Well, if there's no chance that he's joking about his sexuality, there's no need to answer the rest of your stuff.

Great way to ignore EVERYTHING ELSE I said.

If grabbing ass and trying to kiss is "flirting"...then I've been doing it wrong. That's way too much contact, and I don't care what his (or your) sexuality is.

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Originally posted by clpo13:
If you would do the same thing, you can't complain, no matter what normal is.

I would do that to mess around, or, if I meant it as flirting, I would do it to someone that knew I liked her, and not to someone not interested, as was with this fellow.

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Originally posted by freedomordeath:
So you don't think there is even a possibility he was just joking about his sexuality?

No chance.

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Of course I would, but I would have to assume that the girl was straight, because that's normal.

If you would do the same thing, you can't complain, no matter what normal is.

So you don't think there is even a possibility he was just joking about his sexuality? I mean, I don't do that unless I know the other person is taking it as a joke, but that's just me. The same thing happens all the time in elementary school - you don't remember the "ugly" girls chasing you around, trying to kiss you?

But I still don't understand why you're trying to make this one, apparently jerk, into the whole gay community? Come on, man.

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Originally posted by freedomordeath:
OR, Darth, could that be what is perfectly acceptable in the lockerroom by jocks? Or should I say by jocks in general?

I've never seen guys kissing eachother in the locker room. Grabbing their ass yes, playfully, but not kissing.

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Originally posted by clpo13:
Oh and I'm sure you would never do that to a girl you like.

Of course I would, but I would have to assume that the girl was straight, because that's normal.

i think people who are gay/bi aren't hurting anyone else. they're just minding their own bussiness. they're not causing trouble or hurting anything. just let them be. they'll only cause problems (protest) if someone else with a stick up their butt starts it.

OR, Darth, could that be what is perfectly acceptable in the lockerroom by jocks? Or should I say by jocks in general?