I figure while I'm here I'd share my story and let you all share yours. I'm going out on a limb here with ****tiest day ever.

My grandmother died today. Great grandmother actually but who knows their great grandmother until they're 18? I mean honestly. She was ancient and there were some young mothers in our family. Anyways she died today right after I broke up with my boyfriend. I've been agonizing over that all week. I know there are people out there who have had days 50 million times worse than mine but I'm in a bad mood and feel like *****in.

Hmmm...I'm wondering whether to actually reply to this person or not...Okay, I'm in the mood.

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ok not 2 sound like a *****!! but who in the hell says something like that? its like u trying 2 get ppl 2 feel sorry 4 you!! dont you get it?... this thread was about GOTM NOT YOU!! and now you'll probly freak out and go on that im a newbie or sum such bull**** but in case you haven't noticed EVERYONE HERE HAS SUM SORT OF PROBLEM!!! ITS NOT JUST YOU!!!!
how about u stop the self pity for a few minutes and maybe say something i dont no, worthwhile!!!

1. I was in no way, shape, or form trying to get people to feel sorry for me. I don't like pity, I don't even like self-pity. If I had wanted that I would have either created my own board or went into more detail about what's been going on in my life. Instead, I refrained from doing so.

2. This thread was created by GQTM and he shared his ****ty day BUT the title of this board was, "Ever had a ****ty day?" I merely answered the question. However, if you read further, you will see that I also tried to give GQTM some support in the rest of my post. The bit you posted was only the beginning. Did you even bother to read the rest of it?

3. I don't have self-pity for myself. Ever. I always (almost) say something worthwhile. Ask anyone.

4. You are a newb and, frankly, I think you suck as of right now. You are rude, assuming, mean, and speak down to someone who has been here over a year and is bordering on 2000 posts. I try to get along with everyone and I never make anything "just about me." So, you know what? You can go to hell and stop ruining GQTM's thread by arguing with me.


GQTM: I'm sorry. I had no idea that my bit in supporting you would be completely trashed. Hopefully this newb will not respond again. I hope you're doing alright, m'dear.

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ok not 2 sound like a *****!! but who in the hell says something like that? its like u trying 2 get ppl 2 feel sorry 4 you!! dont you get it?... this thread was about GOTM NOT YOU!! and now you'll probly freak out and go on that im a newbie or sum such bull**** but in case you haven't noticed EVERYONE HERE HAS SUM SORT OF PROBLEM!!! ITS NOT JUST YOU!!!!
how about u stop the self pity for a few minutes and maybe say something i dont no, worthwhile!!!

This really wasn't necessary by any means. Worth was letting GQ know that everyone has bad days. She doesn't want self-pity. And as for the thread not being about her, the question was " ever had a _____ day. So she had every right to inform us all that she has. Please, be respectful.

GQ hun, I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope everything's going ok and if you need to talk to me, you know where to find me. Hang in there, everything will be ok.

It sounded to me like WorthWaitingFor was expressing that she knows a bit now GQTM feels, without going into too much detail, as a show of support. Sometimes, you need to know that there are other people in your sort of situation, or were, but are doing okay.
After all, I have been a jerk before, and I'm doing okay. I'm just giving you the show of support.
How about you stop the aggressive bull$#^! and maybe say something nice, or just shut up? You could have just stopped after giving some nice words to GQTM, but no. I've seen too many jerks do this to people on this board, and I'm tired of it.

Sorry for ranting on your thread, man. You have my sympathy, though I only have the slightest idea how you must have felt. How ya holding up?

GOTM im so sorry about your day!! that must be so hard!! but everyones had a bad day!! i too new my great-gram and i no how hard it is!! and as far as the b/f goes!! i'm sure youll find a better 1 someday
now.....
origianlly posted by: WortheWaitingFor "Every day after June 12th, for the most part, as sucked for me. You know, with this overwhelming sadness and lonliness thing I've got going on. Not to mention all the confusion recently mixed in."
ok not 2 sound like a *****!! but who in the hell says something like that? its like u trying 2 get ppl 2 feel sorry 4 you!! dont you get it?... this thread was about GOTM NOT YOU!! and now you'll probly freak out and go on that im a newbie or sum such bull**** but in case you haven't noticed EVERYONE HERE HAS SUM SORT OF PROBLEM!!! ITS NOT JUST YOU!!!!
how about u stop the self pity for a few minutes and maybe say something i dont no, worthwhile!!!

Yeah, reminds me of the day before, day of and 2 days following my 14'th birthday. I won't get into it, don't wanna bring y'all down. Sides ain't worth telling or for me to remember.

Every day after June 12th, for the most part, as sucked for me. You know, with this overwhelming sadness and lonliness thing I've got going on. Not to mention all the confusion recently mixed in.

Sorry about you boyfriend, but at least you cut it off and he didn't dump you. I would think that would be a little easier to deal with, but then again I wouldn't know.

And I'm doubly sorry about your great-grandmother. I never knew either of mine so I think it's great that you at least knew her. Just think about any happy times you may have had with her.