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Picture of Ashadash121
Registered: October 09, 2006
Posts: 2
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As my profile says,im bisexual. the only problem i have is...just how do i tell my mum that im bi. my family has repeatedly made fun of bisexual,and gay people. it hurts me alot too,that i cant be open with them,without thinking and knowing that their going to make fun of me and maybe hating me,even with me being family. My mum has also repeatedly asked if i was bisexual,just because i was commenting this one girl on myspace,telling her that she was gorgeous. it hurt me alot cause i couldnt tell her. And im also having problems telling my mum that im not christain. now,please dont assume that im gothic or an athesist. im not. i belive there is a god,but not the one everyone believes in. can you all help me? Frown ConfusedSP_GC_luvr08@yahoo.comwww.myspace/spgclover08


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Picture of Shade
Registered: December 27, 2006
Posts: 3981
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Just tell her. Make it clear that you haven't chosen anything, and you're not falling away from anything they've taught you. You believe in God; bring that into the conversation. Maybe find a good book on sexuality. I couldn't suggest any, apologies. Don't be angry when you tell them, and don't be distraught. Act strong.


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Picture of aleeksandra118
Registered: April 10, 2007
Posts: 27
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Well, I would first of all tell your mom that those jokes aren't funny.
Second, get a good, strong group of gay friends in your area that you can fall back on and then tell your mom.
You don't have to tell her unless you want to and unless your feel comfortable with it.

Good luck!


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Picture of Tonic
Registered: April 01, 2007
Posts: 96
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sometimes its easier to wait till you don't live at home to tell them stuff like that.


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Picture of speakinfinitetimes
Registered: April 02, 2007
Posts: 7
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well actually you should just comeout and tell ur parents they might be mad but they face it and the sooner you tell them the better trust me ive been there


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Registered: August 18, 2006
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i have never been in that situation, but i would say tell someone you most trust in your family. maybe its your grandparents or your second cousin. you can also right a letter or send an email to your family telling them that you are a bisexual.


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