Alright, yesterday I slept over one of my best friends houses, and then I got a ride home from this guy shes kind of into. Well, she was being wicked *****y to him the entire time, and he just got fed up and he and i drove off. One thing lead to another, and he and I kind of messed around. Now shes not returning my calls, and her away message was "**** you". So Im terrified that shes gonna find out, I know I should tell her, but the kid is out with his friends, and so I have no one to discuss this with.

So my problem is, tell her, not tell her, have him tell her, or run!!!
HELP

I find it funny other people are giving gothichick a bad time for her problem. If you people were in the same position, and only had the people here to ask their opinons of I'm damn well sure most of you would. And just because you may not agree about what she did doesn't mean you have to give her crap about it. Just leave her be and grow up.

Anyways, gothichick I can't say what you should or should not do. It may be the best for your friendship if you tell her straight up what happened. But then again it may be best for your friendship not to tell her. It all depends on how you think she'd most likely react. Also it depends on how well you think you may hurt her or not by your decision of whether or not you're going to tell her. So I guess there's no way I can fully help but maybe a little. I'll check up on ya.
*~*Kerry*~*

Why be so hateful to someone who seeked advice? When someone needs help you shouldn't reject them. C'mon, you can't be that blackhearted people.

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Shut up, mindy

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First of all, it's MANDY.

Second...no.

Shut up, mindy. You're unbelievably nauseating.

Don't ****ing tell me if I care or not! How do you know I don't know her? And just because someone doesn't know somebody, that doesn't mean that they don't give a ****!

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Speak for yourself. Even tho I don't know this girl, I still care. You should have said "Too bad I don't care about your life, gothichick." That would be a better statement.

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No one really cares. That is the horrid, vindictive truth. You may think you care, but you do not. Gothichick's decisions - in no shape or form - affect you. If she and her friends died today, you would completely impervious to it. So stop acting as if you are concerned, when you obviously are not.

So she came back to tell us what happened? ... I'm so touched.

Pathetic.

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Dear American Girl advice column

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hahahaha. I used to get that when I was in elementary school. ugh. I had a doll and everything.

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Too bad no one really cares about your dismal life, gothichick.

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Speak for yourself. Even tho I don't know this girl, I still care. You should have said "Too bad I don't care about your life, gothichick." That would be a better statement.

I hate it when teeny boppers use YN as some Dear American Girl advice column. *vomits*

Too bad no one really cares about your dismal life, gothichick.

um, yay!?

Glad to hear it.

okay, bloody and earth? go kill yourselves. Second, I ended up telling her, and shes totally cool with it. She knew something was gonna happen, and yes, she was pissed the day it happened, but now shes fine. Lol, now she wants to plot revenge on the kid for telling me not to say anything to her. needless to say, this was a fun vacation.

Sorry, We can't correct your stupidity/feeble MTV infested mind that can't think for itself.

If her away message said "**** you" then maybe she already knows, or else as a feeling that something went on. She'll find out somehow from somebody, so it'll be better if she hears it from you.

You're a crappy friend. End of story. Now shut up and move on. No, wait. If you can't figure something like this out, then I think you should smother yourself with a pillow before you can venture into the real world and be slowly crushed to death by its tribulations.

I think you should talk to her about it. First ask her what she would do if you told her you messed around with him. Then you'll be ready. Just tell her that you like him too and she should get over it. And if she likes him she shouldn't have acted like that. It was very immature and she should learn how to flirt better. Make sure she's ok and try to keep talking till she is, because it's never good to depart angry.