I know when it happens, we get on his myspace or on his aol mail and i look around. He recently broke up with his ex two months ago, on his myspace i find comments that he sent to her like "I love you babe, you are the most beautiful girl ever" i start feeling upset. I just dont want him to use those lines on me.When we get on his aol mail...it is stacked with porn websites, he warned me it would be. I just still get upset. I trust him right now...I do, I just dont know....if he still thinks about her? Am i pushing him away? I want to have a strong relationship with him. Should i just chill? But wait...He tells me i am beautiful and he loves me...it just gets to me......? I need some advice.

I would have to say it this way:

speak as you would like to see it,

live the way you have always dreamed it,

be the way you want like no one cares.

because you have to know who you are and what you want before anyone else can understand it...

and if they don't know how can they choose you from anyone else...

"honesty is a sign of trust,
trust is a risk to love,
love is taking the bigest chance,
with hopes of the greatest return."- HAIREO

you both have to agree together...you have to be going in the same direction in order to stay on the same path...

guys always fantasize about women secretly it there nature it was hard for me to understand but women have beautiful bodies and guys love them there all unique but what makes you different than of these girls is the ability to connect with your man, and the way he finds your personality superior. When you let a guy know that he is untrusted after awhile he figures that you do not trust him anyways so he might as well have fun the sex appeal goes away guys hate when they are nagged at by us girls is okay to feel jealous but talk to your homegirls about it instead if you stop being jealous with him he may start to trust you even more and want to spend more quality time with you if you know what I mean!

hey.. i kinda know how your feeling os just a little while back i found my bestfriend and bf in bed together they didnt do anything as such and i trust them both but it gets to me all the time and i think im pushing him away everytime it gets to me. and it sucks because it gets you down to...
have you talked to him? thats helped me alot... but still no one understands where i am coming from and how i see it... maybe that like you too....
xx