there are so many issues of violence in relationships with a partner. people take the word "abuse" to be physical harm to one another.. but its more than that. its emotionally and mentally as well. i was in a relationship for 3 and a half years. and for 2 and bit years. i was being abused by my boyfriend at the time. every time he was angry or felt frustrated wether or not it was my fault. he would turn on me. i didnt tell anyone and now i regret that. because i could of been out of the situation quicker. we hear about these stories and say to ourselves. "i wont let that happen to me" or "if my boyfriend did that ill leave".. but its different when it happens.. i guess im just looking for someone to talk to about this..if anyone has anything to say or a common story.. feel free to post.