when we first got together months ago we would talk or text or IM forever until 8 in the morning. but now he's always busy. we hardly talk anymore and when i get online he gets off and idk =[ i'm his first and i've been with alot of people before and i'm always the one to break up with people but i really do love him and i don't want to do that =[ i don't wanna cry and i want to talk to him!!! i don't want to accuse him of anything though and especially if he really does love me as much as he says he does. is there any way i can find out if he's being truthful without having to seem like i'm implying bad things?

The best thing to do is confront him, even if it hurts him, if he's been cheating on you, you have the right to know. And if he hasn't been cheating on you, and you still accuse him, apologize, and tell him that you made an honest excuse. And it helps to do it in person, instead of over the phone. Hope all goes well.

Is there anything other than the recent distance between you, that makes you believe he has been unfaithful?