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Registered: January 25, 2009
Posts: 51
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Would you do it?
Do you think it's okay do it? If not, why not?
Have you ever done it? What happened afterwards?
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Registered: July 20, 2008
Posts: 97
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have done it and never will again, and i don't know what i was thinking when i did we were just hanging out and decided to do it, (won't get into details for your benefit) but i trusted him, and we had been friends for a very long time, although this was our first date, but it was in the middle of the day, and nothing was really awkward afterwards, we kept hanging out, and it was my only consentual time, which was great, but wouldn't suggest it, especially if you havent known him/her a long time, or trust them with your body
Don't stand by the sidelines and wait for somebody else to do something, because that somebody else might never come
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Registered: December 18, 2005
Posts: 1643
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See, I'm lucky. The person I lost it to is still with me. Yeah ho's 5 years and still goin'. lol, I don't know. I'm just bored. Ooh time to watch the judge.
i stand for love and peace!
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Registered: June 30, 2009
Posts: 30
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quote: Originally posted by LetsStopThisInWV:
lol very well put and i loved the quote. lol except isn't sex pretty much all emotion and no logic? i don't think that most people are going to think about it. i'd say that a solid mix of emotion with a dash of logic would work nicely though. lol
well you don't wanna be in a relationship forever and find out it's bad right?? listen to lily allen - not fair ... hahaha jk |
Registered: March 07, 2009
Posts: 246
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lol very well put and i loved the quote. lol except isn't sex pretty much all emotion and no logic? i don't think that most people are going to think about it. i'd say that a solid mix of emotion with a dash of logic would work nicely though. lol
What comes around comes back around and says RAWR!
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Registered: April 30, 2009
Posts: 22
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quote: Now a woman who'll kiss on the very first date is usually a hussy
And a woman who'll kiss on the second time out is anything but fussy
But a woman who'll wait till the third time around
Head in the clouds, feet on the ground
She's the girl he's glad he's found
She's his Shipoopi
lmaoo!! family guy. wicked. lol. uhh sex on the first night?? listen to monica-first night. lol. find some inspiration. ill never be down for one night stands. there to risky and slutty for my liking. i think having sex with someone should be sacred. you dont just open ur legs for everyone. thats slutty. and you have a higher risk of catching random std's and shit. thats not cool now is it. i rather know someone well before i allow them the opprotunity of gettin down with Natacitaaa! lol. alright im over tired. but seriously. think about what your doing before you do it. use logic, not emotion. |
Registered: December 18, 2005
Posts: 1643
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i don't really see how sex is a big deal. animals do it all the time... as long as you use protection and no one gets hurt i say it is a o k
i stand for love and peace!
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Registered: March 03, 2009
Posts: 392
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Your choice dude I really would try to go for it on the first date just go on a couple more dates first.
"If you can't stand the way this place is, take yourself to higher places, Break Away To Higher Places" - TDG
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Registered: March 07, 2009
Posts: 246
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Sex on the first date is pretty stupid. Why would you want to create an emotional attachment to someone that you probably don't know very well? But then again I guess you could be one of those people who doesn't have any emotional attachment...then you could probably get away with it I guess.
What comes around comes back around and says RAWR!
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Registered: January 25, 2009
Posts: 51
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quote: Originally posted by Undesired: quote: Originally posted by Doan1GK: hey, if you're that kinda girl, then by all means, go for it, but keep in mind as to why you're doing it. if it's for your own pleasure, then hey, i tip my hat to that, but if it's because you're drunk, you're just plain stupid (no offense). as to what happens afterward, well, maybe you should've thought of that before you do anything now, shouldn't you? part of the "are you ready?are you not thing?" is that how are you going to deal with "the morning after." if you can handle it gracefully and without any hard feelings, then sure, you're ready for it. but really, on the first date? it's a little too unclassy for my taste, but that's just me. i was raised to believe that a girl's body is a temple, not an amusement park, and should never be treated like an amusement park. that is all 
Totally agree. But, the one thing I see differently is that I never really valued my body because of past experiences. I sitll don't. However, I have common sense. I'm all for my survival. If I do something like that no matter how much I don't value my body, I know won't be well after I do something like that, emotionally speaking. So, that's why I stay away from it. But, it's not because I think it's tacky, unclassy, or I value my body. It's just that I need to survive and doing shit like that will only fuck me up more. It'a all survival of the fetus. I try my best to not do things that will make my situations in life WORSE. NO MATTER HOW I FEEL OR THINK! If I do, I reached rock bottom and the only person who can pick myself up is me.
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Registered: January 25, 2009
Posts: 51
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quote: Originally posted by Doan1GK: hey, if you're that kinda girl, then by all means, go for it, but keep in mind as to why you're doing it. if it's for your own pleasure, then hey, i tip my hat to that, but if it's because you're drunk, you're just plain stupid (no offense). as to what happens afterward, well, maybe you should've thought of that before you do anything now, shouldn't you? part of the "are you ready?are you not thing?" is that how are you going to deal with "the morning after." if you can handle it gracefully and without any hard feelings, then sure, you're ready for it. but really, on the first date? it's a little too unclassy for my taste, but that's just me. i was raised to believe that a girl's body is a temple, not an amusement park, and should never be treated like an amusement park. that is all
Totally agree. But, the one thing I see differently is that I never really valued my body because of past experiences. I sitll don't. However, I have common sense. I'm all for my survival. If I do something like that no matter how much I don't value my body, I know won't be well after I do something like that, emotionally speaking. So, that's why I stay away from it. But, it's not because i think it's tacky, unclassy, or I value my body. It;s just that I need to survive and doing shit like that will only fuck me up more. It'a all survival of the fetus. I try my best to not do things that will make my situations in life WORSE. NO MATTER HOW I FEEL OR THINK! If I do, I reached rock bottom and the only person who can pick myself up is me. |
Registered: January 29, 2009
Posts: 18
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hey, if you're that kinda girl, then by all means, go for it, but keep in mind as to why you're doing it. if it's for your own pleasure, then hey, i tip my hat to that, but if it's because you're drunk, you're just plain stupid (no offense). as to what happens afterward, well, maybe you should've thought of that before you do anything now, shouldn't you? part of the "are you ready?are you not thing?" is that how are you going to deal with "the morning after." if you can handle it gracefully and without any hard feelings, then sure, you're ready for it. but really, on the first date? it's a little too unclassy for my taste, but that's just me. i was raised to believe that a girl's body is a temple, not an amusement park, and should never be treated like an amusement park. that is all |
Registered: December 18, 2005
Posts: 1643
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Now a woman who'll kiss on the very first date is usually a hussy And a woman who'll kiss on the second time out is anything but fussy But a woman who'll wait till the third time around Head in the clouds, feet on the ground She's the girl he's glad he's found She's his Shipoopi ----- Sure it's alright to do stuff on the first date but then the guy will just consider you as a sex object instead of a potential girl friend.
i stand for love and peace!
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Registered: November 30, 2007
Posts: 445
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I would (if i was drunk enough or if it was a really great date) It's okay, everybody's is different, it matters more what happens afterward- and if both parties involved are okay with it. I've never done it (never been drunk enough)
"I think you're confusing tyranny, with losing"... "You're the minority. It's supposed to taste like a shit taco!" -Jon Stewart on Right-wing Hypocrisy
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