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Picture of VarsityCheer
Registered: June 28, 2009
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ok so i dated this guy named adam and e broke up a week before valentines day. we still stayed pretty close. he started dating this girl named jackie who i dont like. i still have realy strong feelings for him even after this long. adam called me last night and was talking to me cause we havent talked since like june. he decided to play the question. adam told me that he still hase strong feelings for me also and he would love to get back together its just i doesnt want to break up with jackie for that reson. adam is coming over in like a week to hang out and he said that he would love to kiss me. i was like what about jackie and he said that she wont find out and i really want to be with him like were made for each other. adam also told that him and jackie fight ALOT. i told him that thats not healthy and that isnt a good relationship to be in. he asked me what he should and i said that if it gets worse that he needs to break up. i didnt tell him that because i like i told him that because its the truth. i like him so much and i dont know what to do like all of these feelings got stired up again and i find that i am thinkin about him every minuet of the day and all i want is for him to be next to me i just dont know what to do so please help


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Registered: August 12, 2009
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Originally posted by VarsityCheer:
ok so i dated this guy named adam and e broke up a week before valentines day. we still stayed pretty close. he started dating this girl named jackie who i dont like. i still have realy strong feelings for him even after this long. adam called me last night and was talking to me cause we havent talked since like june. he decided to play the question. adam told me that he still hase strong feelings for me also and he would love to get back together its just i doesnt want to break up with jackie for that reson. adam is coming over in like a week to hang out and he said that he would love to kiss me. i was like what about jackie and he said that she wont find out and i really want to be with him like were made for each other. adam also told that him and jackie fight ALOT. i told him that thats not healthy and that isnt a good relationship to be in. he asked me what he should and i said that if it gets worse that he needs to break up. i didnt tell him that because i like i told him that because its the truth. i like him so much and i dont know what to do like all of these feelings got stired up again and i find that i am thinkin about him every minuet of the day and all i want is for him to be next to me i just dont know what to do so please help
Ok so i think u shouldnt go out with him anymore is is probly lying to u probly dont know how many girls have went out with him he could probly be like the guy who just wants too be with every body not just u for watever reason it is probly not safe so take my advice and just try to avoid him!!! Hes probly not worth your time!!! Big Grin


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maybe he's just lying in order to make you feel better. guys are dumb like that. they try to please all the ladies.

get over him, he sounds like a moron.


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Registered: July 20, 2008
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he could just be telling you that he hasn't told Jackie, but he really has, i've came across guys like that before, and usually the relationship that you think you should be in isn't the one that's going to last,

when my boyfriend and i got together, i was thinking "yeah this is cool but it probably won't last too long," and that was 6 years ago, and i was thinking that we shouldn't be together,

but then again guys that i thought i should be with didn't work out, it was great for awhile, but it just didn't last


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Registered: June 28, 2009
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but like he told me all these things that like when he was with jackie he was thinking about me and stuff and he tells me stuff that is really personal that he wont tell jackie like family issues and stuff like that and like he is the only guy i have ever opened up to adam has seen me with defenses up like my guard is totally down. it just feels like we should be together. should we?


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Registered: July 20, 2008
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i would wait for him to see that that's not the kind of relationship he should be in, and about the kiss if that girl Jackie does find out, you'll be labeled as a girl who cheats on girls' bf's so that's kind of risky.. but that's my opinion


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Registered: June 28, 2009
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um....i just asked for some help dont be a bitch


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nobody cares get over it


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