OK theres this girl i work with i really like her and i talk to her whenever i can, i even got her number (she put it on my phone one night). But i have a problem i dont know how to tell her how i feel about her or how i would ask her out on a date or something cause i get too nevous and afriad.Can someone give me some tips/advice on how to solve these problems

PS shes single to so i dont have to worry about that

Anybody up for giving a girl guy advice?

I would just tell her.. most girls like when you are striaght forward. if she likes you to thats great! it could be the starrt of a great relationship!

Girls love confidence, and she was basically, telling you to call her if she ut her number in your phone! Which is a very good sign. I think you should just be up front with her. Just one day, when the two of you are hanging out, unexpectedly ask her. One time, I drew on this boys hand that i liked, and he drew on my hand "will you go out with me" it was adorable, confident, but not too confident. You could try something like that. And if you absolutly want to ask her over txt message, draw an awesome picture asking her out, and send it to her, then call her for the answer. It's up to you.

Definatley don't ask her via text or phone, when you see her ask her to go hang out at a local place. Then tell her your real feelings. Be confindent, and don't scare her!

Well, I wouldnt ask her out over the phone or in a text. In person makes people kind of want to say yes more because it shows you have confidence. Also, her just adding your number in randomly is probably a sign that she likes you, girls usually dont go and do that. I think you got a good shot at it, so good luck. Ask her in person.

do not ask her over the phone!! if you ask her in person, it'll be more meaningful to her. since she put her number in your phone, she is definatly giving you a hint. i mean, why would she just put it in there for nothing? shes probably into you, so ask her out in person!

good luck!

i think that u should huh intivte her to a movie with some frineds. and get ot kno her better becouse sometimes u think that u like someone u get to kno them better and sometimes u dont really like them

listen, i dont really know the situation exactly but what i do know is that u shud do it in person otherwise u might as well not do it!first get to know her better and see if you really like her then observe how she'll be in a relationship..once u've got all the answers, u just gotta make the first move,practice and depending on the type of person she is, propose with flowers,chocolate,a gift or a nice poem(written by u of course)!!

good luck..
noiseday29

via text theres nowt rong wid it not like ur dumpinfg her

I believe I've found the source of your problem: "DarthWookie".

YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT AND GET TO KNOW HER OUTSIDE OF WORK
PLAY THE FIELD A LITTLE AND MAKE SURE SHE LIKES YOU AND THEN ASK HER OUT
GOOD LUCK

You guyd are idiots. NEVER use the phone. Girls think it's immature... not to mention if you break up with her, it's extremely unclassy to text her. Talk in person or you'll seem like a doof.

you know i see where you are i had this same problem witha guy at my church i liked.. sometimes its hard to let people knoe how you really feel about them . so you just have to take the chance and let them know , just knowing you may not get the anwser you want.if yu want to ask her just go out to dinner as friends and see where that leads you . maybe the you can see if this gir l wants to be more than friends with you
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Moved here from Randomosity. Carry on.

I don't like giving advice on thse subject because I don't know either of you and I don't know how she behaves with you. Even so, hint at it any way that you come up with, text her randomly some night and just ask how she's doing, or ask her to come have lunch or dinner or whatever break you guys get at work to eat, anything like that. Don't say it outright if you're not getting good vibes from her though, because that might cause one of those weird tense situations humans are prone to when we suspect these kind of things.
Just try to analize her behaviour towards you, does she adopt a different manner when you talk, does she treat you any differently from other people? try to notice these things and come to a conclusion, and be pesimistic, feelings tend to make us to optimistic when considering these things and it's easy to be missguided by other's actions.
If you're getting a good feeling from her just casually ask her out to do something perfectly normal, don't even talk about it as if it was a date, just something you'd do with a friend.
Hope that helps.