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Picture of anabadd007
Registered: May 02, 2009
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teenage girls around the glob get beat on in a relationship very often. Maybe you'll see a boy getting abused now and then by his girlfriend. Is it ok? NO ITS NOT!!!! Yea the same line that i hear from girls is that..."But I love him. i know he loves me back, he'll change..." Come on girls you shouldn't be in a relationship when the person you'r with is laying their hands on you.That right there is NOT called love it is called abuse. Not only does it effect you it has a effects on others such as your love ones around you.Trust me take it from a person that grew up watching her mother getting abused everyday for stuipdness like not making something to eat.....Ladies please if you are in a relationship that hurts you in any way get out now...
Picture of Grant
Registered: July 07, 2009
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Registered: May 08, 2009
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Its not as easy as 'just getting out of it'! Women all over the world get abused and NO WAY should they at any point feel embarrased or ashamed that it unfortunately happened to them. If you are getting abused and can't get out because you're afraid of what might happen (NOT BECAUSE 'YOU LOVE THEM') then I would suggest confiding in a trusted friend and dont let the situation spiral out of control because there are decent men out there who knows how to respect a lady. You are worth so much more than what you're being treated like and you will find this out as soon as you get rid of him. I also know what its like because my mum was abused by an abussive man, and she was incredibly brave and I admire her so much!!
Picture of Wolfie
Registered: December 18, 2005
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there's something called battered womens' syndrome that you should look up and maybe the next time you post you'll have a little bit more empathy.


i stand for love and peace!
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