ok so me and this guy just started dating .
One of my friends said they asked him if he was dating me an he said no, it is just a misunderstanding. Well thats what i heared from her anyway . I want to find out if he actually said that or not. BUT i dont want to ask him directley . What should i do ? who should i trust?

I think you should honestly ask him point blank. Because if you start a relationship not being able to talk to your boyfriend things are just going to go downhill. Besides, I'm sure he'll appreciate you coming to him and asking him rather than taking someone else's word on something like this. Let us know how it goes!!

then once you get him don't forget to train him.

i can't stress how important that is.

don't let him no he's getting trained though, won't appreciate it.

basically act cute to get your way and innocent.

if you still can't get your way tell him he's being mean to you. for some reason guilt works really well with guys.

i should right a book on how to train men.

cha- yeah! there is nothing funnier ( ok...mabey a few things...) than watch a guy struggle for your attention. especially if he is worried that he is going to loose you. to another guy. there is these two guys that i recently met who are friends (sorta). one is blonde and one is cuban (i know that they're not even related but just for the sake of not saying any names...) okay. the blonde one i started to get to know first (even though i met them at the same time) and he is really nice and funny and TALL which is awesome. the other one, the cuban guy, is super sexy with an accent and funny. i like both of them. Cuban boy is more forward and declared today that i am his future gf. well on friday, blondie's friend (who is also my friend) told me that he thinks he likes me...how sweet...(but it really is.) i was like awwww.... i kinda like him but i also kinda like cuban boy. so today, cuban boy has been hanging with me and blondie has been getting a little jealous...which is cute.... but cuban boy kinda has too... it's hilarious! especially since guys will make fools of themselves to proove themselves to you. so my point is candysweet027 and wolfie is that make the guys ass jelous by using one of his friends. which is kinda mean... but as long as you do it the right way, no one will get hurt.....

there really is nothing better than playing hard to get.

they are right, candysweet027.... you got to go up and tell this boy how it is. mabey not while using fuck twelve time in your sentence, but make sure you phsyc him out. if you've got any older bigger stronger brothers or friends totally have them freaking this guy out. it will be totally hilarious. and if he did say that be like "ass-hole" and walk away and then if he starts begging for u back ,and u want him, play VERY hard to get. u'll get a good laugh out of it.

are you fucking serious. go right up to him and be like 'fuck you.' and walk away. if he comes after you, he likes you and if he doesn't well then all well, at least you got to tell him to fuck himself.

just fucking ask him. he's supposed to be YOUR man so that kind of entitles you to something. duh.

say it like this "so guess what so and so fucking told me. she said that you told her we weren't fucking together. can you tell me what the fuck that's about."

I've noticed that the more you swear, and the more you seem to know about a situation (guys get so unnerved when girls know things) than the more scared he will be.

you gotta train him.

If you want to know then the only way is for you to directly confront him even if you don't want to. and if he did say that it there still could have been some kind of misunderstanding so no worries. not to mention if u ask him directly it will make it harder for him to lie because you can easily tell when someone is lying when you are speaking to them face-to-face.