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Picture of EdwardLuvr99
Registered: July 20, 2008
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Okay,My friend was going out with this guy that we were both friends with and then she broke up with him.A little while after that he confessed that he liked me and he asked me out.I checked with my friend if it was okay and she said yes.I realized i didn't like him in that way.I just wanna know,is it okay to go out with a friend's ex even they approve?
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Registered: August 19, 2008
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jenlove said it perfect. ^_^


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Picture of BriannaK
Registered: July 26, 2008
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if she said ya, go for it.
Picture of Jenlove
Registered: June 27, 2008
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If a friend makes it clear to you that she is totally fine with you dating her ex then it should not be a problem. However you need to keep in mind the reason the two broke up in the first placee. If they just did not like each other anymore or it just wasn't working then everything should be fine. But if there are deeper issues involved like serious emotions, unfaithfulness, or abusive behavior then it would be best if you didn't get involved. Make sure the guy is a good investment of your time before you invest time in him.


Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants. We know more about war than we know about peace, more about killing than we know about living. We have grasped the mystery of the atom and rejected the Sermon on the Mount. -Omar N. Bradley
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Registered: July 22, 2008
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it's not wrong but it may feel a little awkward. However, your life shouldn't stop because of your friend's past relation with this guy so i agree... go for it!
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Registered: June 09, 2008
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is it wrong to go out with a friends ex even if they approve.hmm..i say go for it.
I went out with my friends ex after she said she was cool with it and had no interest in him.
But, why would you go out with him if you dont like him as a boyfriend?


-gaby [There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. -William Barclay]
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