posted this on a different site but got barely one response..please give advice---
about 2 years ago my mum told me that my dad was a peodo. he molested his younger siblings. i was kinda shocked cuz my uncle and aunts dont hsve a problem with him, but i cant ask them about it as they dont speak good english and i dont wanna dig it all up again. he since then moved to england and was always like the model dad, but now i cant even look at him without feleing sick i cant even touch him without flinching. if hes changed, why cant i just get over this, but seriously he repulses me, and i feel physically sick in his presence...i cant help thinking PEODO if he as much as smiles at me. what shall i do??
thanks
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U cant look at him the same cause ur view of him has changed. a therapist would most likely tell u to confront him and talk to him about it, try to work through this together. the only other thing tht could be said is tht u could supress the memory back so far tht u couldnt remember what it was about tht made you feel this way. id try talking about it with both u ur dad & whoever told u about this all in 1 room. talk 2 the person who told u about this first too it maybe tht ur dad is uncomfortable about this & might not want to bring back these painful memories.

Why don't you go to a therapist. These are teenagers, not psychologists. Best to seek professional advice.