Ok I have been friends with this guy for 3 years and i have always liked him a little bit, but now i am really starting to like him! What should I do. I don't want to tell him because we are always doing stuff together and it would be weird. Plus I don't want us to stop being friends. Any one have advice?

I ahve the same situation. We are gf and bf . I email her becauseI'm nopt brave enough to say it to her face.an d when I am brave enoughI cant find the right time and place to tell her. so just find out his e-mail and e-mail him

I have kidn of the same deal. I've only been friends with this guy for like a week but we just clicked so well that we're now really close friends. SOunds sketchy but it just happened that way. He has a girlfriend, whom I know is a wh0re and no good for him, but I don't want to say that to him, you know? We hit it off so well right away he told me he thinks of me as a super-close friend but not more. It's weird because we kind of do flirt when we're hanging out together. I really really like him and I don't know how to deal with it. I think we could be great together but I need him to see it or feel it or whatever. It won't mess up our friendship because we haven't been so close for very long and I really think it could work between us if he got rid of that girl and if he liked me that way. It's really tough to deal with. You're not alone, girlie, you're not alone. If you have any suggestions or come to a solution for your problem tell me and maybe I can fix mine hehe.
~Queb~

Yeah, you do have to be confident that it won't ruin your friendship. I wouldn't have taken the risk if I thought we couldn't be friends.

I told my friend on msn messenger. I would have rather got it out face to face but it just sort of happened that way.

Bex

you really dont want to get to close to your best friend believe me ive done it and i will tell you that if you date your best friend or a friend it is very very hard to be friends if you ever break up.

well how would i let him know? I am too shy to just straight up say it and i am not into writin a ton of letters like most gurls.

Well if you do tell him or he guesses, just remember it only has to be awkward if you make it that way. You'd be amazed at how easy it is to override awkwardness by just being straightforward with people and not letting it bother you.

Bex

bexthrex, he is really immature (unfortunately I tend to fall 4 them), but he is a really good guy. I think that if he knew I liked him he would feel really weird around me and avoid me. Or i would do that to him out of embarrsement.
Amaris and noisee, I don't want to throw rocks at him. thanx ne wyz.

Im just trying to prevent her from going through the crap I have.

lol tweet look what u said, ur such a hypocrite...lol

Hum. I fell for one of my best friends. I told him how I felt, and it was the best thing to do. He didn't feel the same way, but I wouldn't have been able to move on if I hadn't told him.

If he's a really good friend he will be understanding, and it probably wouldn't make things as awkward as you think. I think life is too short for secrets, especially between friends. It turned out mine had already guessed how I felt anyway.

Of course it all depends on how much of a decent guy your friend is. I knew I could trust mine not to freak out and treat me differently. You say you don't want to ruin your friendship and only you can judge if this would.

Bex

I agree with Amaris.

Boys suck. Throw rocks at them.

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But first, beat the crap out of the guy you like.

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Nooooooooooo... but thanx ne ways

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Do what Tweet says.

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How is it possible that there can be so much beauty in four simple words? lol

Do what Tweet says.
But first, beat the crap out of the guy you like. Then you'll have a reason to run.

Run. As fast as you can in the opposite direction. Do not allow yourself to fall in love with a good friend, especially if you dont think he feels the same way. Trust me on this one.

dont tell him move on forget about it jeez i always have to give the reasonable advice in yn