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Picture of candysweet027
Registered: September 23, 2008
Posts: 6
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Ok like there is this guy who really likes me. He is really hott and i admire him. Now there is this other guy who like totally is a stalker. He is like obsessed with me. He follows me around, he is always by my locker, he even tried to follow me into the bathroon before the teacher came down the hall. Now me and that hott guy is dating and the stalker found out. the bell rang and i was going to my classroom then i got pulled into the janitors closet. it was the stalker. he pinned me agaisnt the wall and leaned in like he was gonna kiss me. then his arms slid to my wate and then down to my ass. then he left. i dont want to tell my bf cause he will think im cheating on him and i tried to tell an adult but they all ignore me. they say i dont have proof ..

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

HELP PLEASE
Picture of LetsStopThisInWV
Registered: March 07, 2009
Posts: 246
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omg wow. Just find someone who will listen. that's all i can tell u.


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Picture of batateam
Registered: June 09, 2009
Posts: 14
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Oh my god thats horibbbble. Okay TELL SOMEONE. I dont care if you have to get a blowhorn or shove them down. You need to make them listen to you. This guy is a creep, you know him right? like his name and everything, and you've talked to him, cause if you havent and hes a random creepy guy, you can have him charged with sexual assault. hope i helped. and talk to your boyfriend. tell him the truth about what happened and how you feel about it, and if hes a good boyfriend he will believe you and no think your cheating on his, cause clearly your not if you hate this guy and want nothing to do with him.

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Picture of Godsrules
Registered: April 03, 2009
Posts: 20
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omg. that is so messed up. you should kick that bastard below the waist, tell your bf the ass- hole stalker guy felt you up, and file for a restraining order. because that is so f---ed up. i have been stalked before,but he was just a loser so he left me alone after i started ignoring him and gave him the evil eye.
good luck Smile


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Picture of talktome44
Registered: February 21, 2009
Posts: 10
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Oh my god thats horibbbble. Okay TELL SOMEONE. I dont care if you have to get a blowhorn or shove them down. You need to make them listen to you. This guy is a creep, you know him right? like his name and everything, and you've talked to him, cause if you havent and hes a random creepy guy, you can have him charged with sexual assault. hope i helped. and talk to your boyfriend. tell him the truth about what happened and how you feel about it, and if hes a good boyfriend he will believe you and no think your cheating on his, cause clearly your not if you hate this guy and want nothing to do with him.


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Picture of Wolfie
Registered: December 18, 2005
Posts: 1643
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You need to stand up for yourself to your teachers and say "LISTEN, this happened"

If they don't listen and it happens again in school I'm sure you could sue...

This reminds me of something that happened to my friend. This boy kept texting her weird stuff like "do you believe in truth serum" and "black-out choking" One day at school he kept following her around (this was early in the morning and there were no teachers) she went into the bathroom and he followed her there, grabbed her around the waste and wouldn't let go. She shoved him away and ran out and as she ran out he said "ok i guess i'll watch my hands now." weird.

well, turns out he is bipolar and wasn't even supposed to be at school that day... so it was the adminstrations fault he was there.

She told teachers and they believed her. You just can't give up. Just keep telling them that this kid is harassing you. They (legally) can't disregard it, they have to talk to him (which will hopefully be enough to scare him into not doing it again)


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Picture of AceModel
Registered: September 06, 2008
Posts: 23
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Both shade and flipflop32 is right. You should tell somebody that you trust and also your boyfriend so he will have a clue of whats going on...How much proof do you need??? Still I say even if the teachers dont believe, tell a parent...They have a right to know....I have a friend that has a stalker she knows who it is but he is like totally obsessed....But she is handling that though


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Picture of Shade
Registered: December 27, 2006
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Tell your parents. If you come across as serious and seriously worried they should do something. If they don't, tell your school counselor. They're more useful than they seem. What I'm saying, is go to an adult for help, not a peer.


...a Wandering Star for whom the black darkness has been reserved forever...
Picture of flipflops32
Registered: June 04, 2008
Posts: 8
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I'd tell your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should trust you that you wouldn't cheat, just explain because I'm sure he could do something about it.
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