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Picture of nawarfirdaws
Registered: May 29, 2007
Posts: 4
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It is the current trend in today's society for girls to go after guys instead of the traditional way of guys chasing after girls. The methods we girls use were usually quite subtle. Methods that say, ' I like you, but i don't desperately need you.' However, this methods do not only take a long time to work, but they also fail most of the time because some guys just ended up perceiving the girl as a flirtatious or a friendly person!
so..applying darwin's concept of evolution, I would say that girls have evolved and now are making the first move of asking a guy out on a date instead of waiting for the guy to do so.

But what do you guys think? Do you think it is normal?Acceptable? For guys, what do you think of a girl that asks a guy out? What would you feel if a girl ask you out?

And for girls, tell me your experience if you have asked a man out before. Tell me what gave you the courage to do so. Tell me if taking the risk was worth it.
Picture of SLASHIROTH
Registered: October 22, 2007
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Most guys nowadays are intimidated/ scared to ask a girl out (not me) and i think its because they see the guys that the girl went out with before


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Picture of jerseylynn33
Registered: August 31, 2007
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I think that the guyz should chase the girlz...just because lol i agree with earth goddess a little bit hehehe


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Registered: September 19, 2007
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I no im being really paronoid and more then a little weird, but im so old fashioned and traditional that I always seem to beleive that the guy should ask the girl,


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Picture of YouthVoice
Registered: January 16, 2003
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I'm all for people being open-minded in that sense.


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Picture of ampmaster
Registered: February 22, 2004
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go for it, I like confidant girls so if she asks me out I'll likely be more intrested, but I can still say No just like a guy asking a girl out


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Picture of EarthGoddess
Registered: January 15, 2003
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I've been laughed at and made fun of for it or they were only interested in sex with no strings attached. Which only reinforces my belief that men are worthless pricks who should all die horrifying deaths.
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