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Picture of YouthVoice
Registered: January 16, 2003
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I was wondering if any of you out there have ever been stalked by someone.
What do you do in this type of situation and how do you handle it?
At what point do you decide that it has gone too far?
Picture of YouthVoice
Registered: January 16, 2003
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...man...I don't know...if this is considered stalking...but it shure makes me feel very uncofterble...

This one guy, his in my math class, I don't know him or his name. But I'm always at the library, well, most of the time, and I hang out at this particular area, and his just sitting there, staring at me. I walk somewhere, and there he'll be, looking at me. He waits for me to go into class in order to go sit by his desk, his always looking back at me. I mean, I don't get it...he doesn't even talk to me. I think his brother is also in the same class, they sit by each other. Anyways, his just always waiting for me to get out of class and he'll walk behind me, not saying anything. It just...gets on my nerves, I don't get it. I'll be in the computer and he'll sit on the one second one infront of me, and he'll just be looking at me. Like staring. Doesn't he not know that I can notice that? I don't get it, and I feel bad for feeling this way, but it just makes me soooo uneasy...
aaaahhh....I just don't get it....*sights*
Registered: August 05, 2003
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yeh..one time over IM, this dude Im me pretending to be my friend, and tricked others so i wouldn't find out, and he said all this crap to me and made me sooooooo mad, that the next day at school i cussed him out and ignored him 4 ever, so finnally i calmed down ...went to him and asked why he said all that stuff, and it ended up it was a stalker over Im that over looked all my chats i had ever been in and knew enough info about my friend, to the point where they could trick me...me and my guy friend went to the councler,,and i gave hima huge hug afterwords..and i was really srry...so whatch what ya say on IM...and never trust anyone on their..make sure it's them..have like a code to know who is who...well byez
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Registered: November 27, 2002
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and I blocked every one of them from my iloblegolas2957 sn and got another one that i use only with people i know will NOT post it all over the net.
So i am available on one and not on the other.
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I won't tell the story, sorry.

sweet day. Smile
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Registered: April 24, 2003
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hmmm...i wasnt really stalked...but this one kid slept with my tampon...that sorta freaked me out
Registered: July 07, 2003
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that storie freaks me out. yeah, i guess the SILENT ones are the ones you should worry about Eek (way down below)
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Registered: January 16, 2003
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I know it's a little late to come back and check on this post, sorry Red Face
just wanted to thank all that took there time to give me some advice.
By the way, who ever was knocking at my window stopped doing so (Thank God! Big Grin )
But there's another guy, well, can't talk right now about it cuz I have to go to class, but I'll tell the story later. Big Grin
Registered: May 08, 2003
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Tell someone and take steps to prepare yourself against an attack like carrying pepper spray or other form of a weapon.
Registered: May 21, 2003
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I think that you should go a different route or tell the person off. Confused null
Registered: May 21, 2003
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please people we all have are opinion they just said what they thought IT WAS THERE OPINION!!!
TRUE they did not pick the perfect place or time to tell it but its not right to KICK them in the rear for telling what they thought but it is a free country Smile Wink
Registered: May 21, 2003
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I have been stalked. There was this boy who stared at me always. When i closed my locker he was standin in front of me. I turned around and he was right behind me. This went on for like a month until i confronted him. Then he told me he liked me and he was sorry. Wink
Registered: May 08, 2003
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Being stalked is very serious! Usually the people who stalk are either despate or mentelly ill. If you have a problem with this...tell someone! People have been murdered by stalkers and serously hurt...my best advice is tell your parents..if that doesn't work tell someone who will listen even a teacher or a friend...There are many laws in place of stalking. Don't worry bout people not taking you seriuosly...if they don't they should be invesagated. So tell someone and remember it isn't your fault...You have done nothing wrong...and you are not alone! remember that!
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Registered: May 21, 2003
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I was sorda of stalked by this guy for a few weeks almost a month. I told my mom and dad about it. They fixed it almost immediately
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Registered: December 24, 2002
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I'm not sure if this is classified as a stalker story, but it freaked me out.

I watched alot wWE stuff last year. And I always saw this girl who wore WWE shirts and stuff, and she seemed to not have alot of friends. So she was behind me in the lunch line one day, so I decided to talk to her. Well, then we talked some more during lunch, then one day like 3 days after we met she wrote me a note telling me about her family, her phone number, and that we should have a sleep-over.
Soon she started to walk from every class with me, that she knew, which was more than half. Then one day she asked to sit at lunch with me and my friends, so I said sure. (because that's the kind of person I am.) well, she made it a daily thing then. And she'd always talk to me, she never really talked to anyone else at the table, and when I'd try to talk to someone else she'd always start talking again and I'd feel bad not listening to her.
I was getting fed up with this, but the last straw came when she actually walked down to the music room to walk with me, which is at a lonely end of the building.
So I started to avoid her, walking different way or faster. I was just a bit freaked out about it. I mean, she was 4 years older than me and usually seniors don't get that attached to freshman. Unless they were really good friends.

that's my "stalked story". Sorry about the long paragraphs... this was very much a vent for me! LOL
Registered: October 20, 2002
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No i have never been stalked but my sister has. she was once stalked by a ex-boyfriend. He once kidnapped her the most important thing she told me is tell someone and never go anywhere with the person. If you even feel like your being stalked tell.
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Registered: February 08, 2003
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i guess...not. but once, i was on my way to my violin lesson, and at the corner of my block, this old man riding a bicycle said to me" hi beautiful"i pretend that i didn't hear him and i walked away as fast as i could...it's so scary.>_<
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Registered: January 22, 2003
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I've been stalked.

Once in junior high by this guy that claimed I was going out with which I never gave him any reason to believe that. I eventually went to the counselor and they straightened it out.

Then I went my whole high school career w/o being stocked, until my senior year. (I'm graduating in 13 days woohoo!)

The first semester it was by my ex-boyfriend who still sort of stalks me but I'm not worried about it because he's too stupid to really do any harm, and if he did I'd leave him scarred for life.

Recently, I've been stalked by this guy that I sort of showed feelings for. I went on one date with him alone and I went on one group date with him and then I realized that I didn't like him. Before and after that decision I realized he had been doing weird things that could be considered something a stalker would do:
1) he found a picture of the satellite view of my house
2) he found out my cell phone number in an unusual way
after #2 was when I realized I didn't like him anymore
3) he followed me home from school one day "just to talk"
4) he sang songs in the hallway at school while I was taking my final exam for a college class i was taking.
But since #4 I told him how I really felt and he hasn't done anything since, although he does sit in on my 5th period class sometimes because he doesn't want to eat lunch...
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Registered: March 08, 2003
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I think I'm not putting enough detail into my accounts of those people, but trust they were all freaky.

But, as for people knocking on my window and stuff...umm, no!! Why would anyone do that anyway?
Did you ever consider putting a camera in your window?? You can get computer software that will make a regular web cam motion sensitive.

I honestly have to say I would put a bear trap under my window, since he'll be the only person hopping down the road with one foot, he'll be easy to spot.
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Registered: January 16, 2003
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XThinkerX
wow, I've never heard a story liked that, that must've really freaked you out. Some people are just...well...too weird.
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