ok i have these 2 friends one's tasha and one's Jarem, ok and jarem is mormon, and reeally wastn aloud to date tasha, but they dated, kinda for almost 2 years, but jarems parents found out about 6 months ago and they went threw a very tough patch, and so jarem told tasha they cant date anymore, right?! ok so she tryed to get over him, it was hard, but she was trying, but jarem on the other hand just couldnt get over her, so he tryed to get back together with tasha, and she's the kinda person who has problems saying no to ppl who'll give her attension. so she's been going out with him.and there has been quite afew ups and downs in their relationship. dont get me wrong they are both great people and great friends of mine.
then now in present day jarems parents found out again and so he's doing that whole ' we have to get over eachother and date other ppl thing' and tasha is and she has a new bf JJ
but Jarem cant seem to get over tasha, and hates JJ for dating tasha. and jarem isnt eating right and isnt sleeping and just isnt being health at all. and plus he is writing leters to tasha about how much he misses and still loves her. and this is killing her so much. and she's a pretty tough chick. and i just cant sitt around watching my best friends like this anymore, tasha's been asking for my addvice and stuff, but i dont know how to help her. plz can you help me?

i think that you should talk them into sitting down with eachother and talking about things. Like how they feel about eachother and the things that they misss about eachother and what they want in their futures and how the other one could be apart of that. you also need to talk to them about how you feel about the whole thing. GOOD LUCK!!!!!GOD BLESS!

tasha should talk to jarem and explain why hes hurting her and how she feels ...
you could try set him up on a date and talk t him about his health and make him talk to yo sbout how he feels
good luck
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