MY EX BOYFRIEND AND MY BEST FRIEND STARTED TO LIKE EACHOTHER AFTER ME AND HIM BROKE UP NOW THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT GOING OUT AND IM CONFUSED CAUSE IM STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I LET THEM GO OUT OR GO BACK TO HIM OR SHOULD ITELL THEM IM NOT COMFERTABLE.

cause the people who run the boards, if there are any at all, are lazy, lol.

yea this is old. y doesnt yn get rid of stuff like this or at least have some way to end threads that no one cares about anymore?

both still dead btw. tissue all putrefying and liquefying, five star maggot hotel.

i was in the same situation ive liked my best friend since third grade adn then when i told one of my friends how i felt about him she started to talk to him. it was really hard for me to watch so all i did was tell each of them how i felt about the whole thing and left it at that. wll after they talked it over they decided not to date and it turned out that the guy had liked me all along so now we are together(8 months!!!) so i think you should just tell them how you fell about the sitiation and leave it at that and let them decide

live almost the same situation, but I'm now in a relationship with the best friend of my ex, and my ex is starting a relationship with my ex best friend who was in love with my boyfriend before dating my ex. It's a really complicated situation and I'm not comfortable with that, but the thing is that I said it them and they ignored what I said, I just lose them, they don't want to talk to me or others of the gang, they go on together and I'm really mad. But you have a chance because you're still close to your friend so you can talk with her and I hope for you she will understand.
Good luck .

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This thread was created nearly two years ago. By now they've in all likelihood both died in a murder-suicide.

sister! you get up and you tell him that you still love him! Girl you don't have forever to wait around for him to come to his senses. now if you are the one who broke up with him, then you're going to have some explaining to do, but don't hold back.....but don't scare him off either. follow your heart girl.... you've got this

I'd say it depends on who broke up with who. If it was you then sorry but he has every right to like your best friend. In that case it would be ok to go back to him if you were sure you really liked him and if he still likes you.
if he broke up with you then there is little or no hope unless it's him trying to make you jealous...sorry to be the messenger of bad news on that one. And don't get mad at your friend. She's in the clear since it's not like you guys were dating when she came into the picture.

You may just be feeling jealous. Just find someone else and let them have their space to see how their relationship goes. You most likely will find another guy.

But...

If you really like him and you know 100% it's not some jealousy issue, then you should tell me how you feel. But, be ready to lose a best friend? Is it worth it?

Like I said, you most likely will find another guy. *hint**hint*

Welcome to something called "that's life" here you will learn that shit happens.

ohh nooo ! ; thats likee a biq no no ; yeah i understand why yur pissed and im not qonna lie if i found that out it would be different sitiationn . but i believe that yu will be okaiee ; now yu know that she isnt a qood friend at all and that she shouldnt be trusted . yu dont need people in yur lifee that will causee yu troublee .

I live almost the same situation, but I'm now in a relationship with the best friend of my ex, and my ex is starting a relationship with my ex best friend who was in love with my boyfriend before dating my ex. It's a really complicated situation and I'm not comfortable with that, but the thing is that I said it them and they ignored what I said, I just lose them, they don't want to talk to me or others of the gang, they go on together and I'm really mad. But you have a chance because you're still close to your friend so you can talk with her and I hope for you she will understand.
Good luck .

wOw!! you knOw what i already experience that kind of situation.. but the thing is i dOn't love him anymore.. i almOst forget everything.. everything that i feel for him because of what had happen.. i know that before we had a relationship.. my bestfriend really like him.. until the day came that we broke up.. then they start dating and making sweet names that only two of them can use that name to call each other.. first i was hurt but time pass by.. i almost forget him.. and i'm happy.. i think that's what you should do.. start forgetting him.. and just think that the two of them are happy.. maybe that can help.. but if NOT.. then fight!! haha..

I think you should think about the reasons you broke up in the first place. And you should tell your friend how you feel about the situation. if you're uncomfortable with it now its only gonna get worse before it gets better. i personally never got over that situation when my friend went out with my ex. and she wasn't even that close to me. but some hearts are stronger then others. just tell the truth and if you're mad don't say anything until you've calmed down cause you'll do something you'll regret later.

omg..thats like my "friend"s case...
I liked my bf (that I have rite now.) since
when he was going out with one of my best friends..
I waited until about 2 weeks after they broke up
to tell him how I feel. I asked my friend if she still had any feelings toward him and she said no..I asked her like 20x and she said "im over him"..and besides she was going out with another guy at the time..and we're going out. =)
But Im sure she still likes him.

hey at least they waited until you broke up.. can't say the same for my ex-boyfriend and my ex-best friend.

honestly, tell your best friend that you want her to be happy, but this is hurting you. if she really does care about him, ask her to wait a bit before dating him. and not just for your sake, but for her's too. if she's your best friend, you don't want her being a rebound girl. if she's not willing to slow things down with your ex, then why are you friends with her? you deserve better than that.

as for still being in love with him... well that sucks. but that's also life. if it's ended, it's ended and the best thing you can do is try to keep busy and away from him. the pain will go away and eventually, you'll find someone new.

Well, you need to ask yourself several things:

1. Is your best friend the kind of person who would never do something like that unlesss she was very much in love with him too?
2. If you answered no to the above, then why is she your best friend?
3. If you said yes to #1, then she must really like him and then you and she need to talk. She being your best friend, should listen.

In the end, just communicate. Talking can just work out things sometimes, but only if you tell them the whole truth and don't get angry at them for making mistakes and being human.

Get over it.