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Picture of shorty2009
Registered: July 07, 2007
Posts: 11
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MY EX BOYFRIEND AND MY BEST FRIEND STARTED TO LIKE EACHOTHER AFTER ME AND HIM BROKE UP NOW THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT GOING OUT AND IM CONFUSED CAUSE IM STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I LET THEM GO OUT OR GO BACK TO HIM OR SHOULD ITELL THEM IM NOT COMFERTABLE.
Picture of dharling18
Registered: October 24, 2008
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wOw!! you knOw what i already experience that kind of situation.. but the thing is i dOn't love him anymore.. i almOst forget everything.. everything that i feel for him because of what had happen.. i know that before we had a relationship.. my bestfriend really like him.. until the day came that we broke up.. then they start dating and making sweet names that only two of them can use that name to call each other.. first i was hurt but time pass by.. i almost forget him.. and i'm happy.. i think that's what you should do.. start forgetting him.. and just think that the two of them are happy.. maybe that can help.. but if NOT.. then fight!! haha..


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Picture of kagura
Registered: August 19, 2008
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I think you should think about the reasons you broke up in the first place. And you should tell your friend how you feel about the situation. if you're uncomfortable with it now its only gonna get worse before it gets better. i personally never got over that situation when my friend went out with my ex. and she wasn't even that close to me. but some hearts are stronger then others. just tell the truth and if you're mad don't say anything until you've calmed down cause you'll do something you'll regret later.


The starz only shine bright because they're surrounded my darkness.
Picture of gaby_babyy
Registered: June 09, 2008
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omg..thats like my "friend"s case...
I liked my bf (that I have rite now.) since
when he was going out with one of my best friends..
I waited until about 2 weeks after they broke up
to tell him how I feel. I asked my friend if she still had any feelings toward him and she said no..I asked her like 20x and she said "im over him"..and besides she was going out with another guy at the time..and we're going out. =)
But Im sure she still likes him.


-gaby [There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. -William Barclay]
Picture of bekah387
Registered: August 16, 2007
Posts: 4
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hey at least they waited until you broke up.. can't say the same for my ex-boyfriend and my ex-best friend.

honestly, tell your best friend that you want her to be happy, but this is hurting you. if she really does care about him, ask her to wait a bit before dating him. and not just for your sake, but for her's too. if she's your best friend, you don't want her being a rebound girl. if she's not willing to slow things down with your ex, then why are you friends with her? you deserve better than that.

as for still being in love with him... well that sucks. but that's also life. if it's ended, it's ended and the best thing you can do is try to keep busy and away from him. the pain will go away and eventually, you'll find someone new.


rebecca through the looking glass
Picture of girlgrey
Registered: July 07, 2007
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Well, you need to ask yourself several things:

1. Is your best friend the kind of person who would never do something like that unlesss she was very much in love with him too?
2. If you answered no to the above, then why is she your best friend?
3. If you said yes to #1, then she must really like him and then you and she need to talk. She being your best friend, should listen.

In the end, just communicate. Talking can just work out things sometimes, but only if you tell them the whole truth and don't get angry at them for making mistakes and being human.


girlgrey- Living in the grey space between what is black and what is white.
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Registered: January 15, 2003
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