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no kidding jennajean...i was on the bus when visiting san francisco and this guy was totally harassing his girlfriend and swearing at her...it's becoming to constant...we need to stop it

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Tell that to Bush.

no kidding jennajean...i was on the bus when visiting san francisco and this guy was totally harassing his girlfriend and swearing at her...it's becoming to constant...we need to stop it

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why do men do this ?

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Not ALL men do it.

I hate how people like you generalize about a particular race, gender, religion, etc. because of what a few individuals did.

Stop putting people in groups and think of them as individuals instead.

So your brother, in the most base terms, is an abusive a$shole.

Consider the factors -
1. How did he become an abusive as$hole>
2. Who and what influences him to act this way?
3. Is it an emotional or psychological issue?
4. Did he see his mother abused as a child?
5. etc.

i agree with both of u! but there is a lot of boys and not all of them are the same way! my brother always calls me b**** but i know he knows im not i have a lot of guys friend and belive me not every boy is the same way i think some of the boys who treat their girlfriend that way is because they think they can get with anyone they want !

I agree with you, it isn't right for guys to treat their girlfriends badly. Unfortunately it seems to happen a lot. I told my best friend's disgusting loser ex-boyfriend that if he ever did another thing to hurt her he would answer to me and he knew I meant it.I can't tell you exactly why some guys do this because they are all different, but I think in many cases it is to be in control and to feel better about themselves by making someone else feel worse. A man who needs to do that is not a man to me.