I CAME HOME EARLY FROM WORK A FEW WEEKS AGO AND FOUND MY 15-YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND MY 42-YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND HAVING SEX ON THE KITCHEN FLOOR!

I totally lost it! I started screaming and cursing and beating on my boyfriend and when he ran out of the house I started beating on my daughter.

Of course, I don’t see the guy any more and my later my sister and I went online to www.guysandlies.com the checkout site and checked out my boyfriend and found out that this SOB is not only still married, but he’s also being sued by a former wife for child support and that he’s out on parole after being busted 6 months ago for possession (meth), plus he’s 5 years older than he said he was.

My daughter refuses to talk to me except that she told me it was all my fault and that if I wasn’t such a prude and gave him what he wanted he wouldn’t have had to go to other people for sex.

She also told me that if I went to the police and reported him she’d run away from home and I’d never see he again. I also think she may be seeing him.

She’s mad at me and I can’t get her to have a conversation with me to try and talk this out. My sister and I even took her on to the back grounding web site to show her what a loser this guy is. She said she doesn’t care.

Incidentally, women should use that back grounding site before they get involved with rats like my ex. It’s called www.guysandlies.com.

Anyhow, the site didn’t help. I think it made her think he’s glamorous.

Anyway. I tried to get her to see a psychiatrist (she can see one for free through her school) but she says that there’s nothing wrong with her and that I should be the one seeing a psychiatrist if I can’t hold on to a boyfriend.

I can’t afford to go a psychiatrist.

I don’t know what to do. I can’t go on living with her like this. I still love her. How can I get her to start talking to me again.?

okay what the hell are you thinking really!! if that was my daughter i'll kick her square in the ass slutty tramp!! turn his ass in it's for the better wouldn't care what your daughter said every kid can't live with there mom i can't and i'm 18. i dated a 30 year old and i even knew that was wrong so i ended since your daughter isn't making the right choices than it's time to step up and be the mom even if that means being the bitch. don't be her friend now She'll forgive you.

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Originally posted by artemisgirl:
Pansy99, as a 14 year old, you would think I would have some idea about what is going on in your daughter's mind. But I can't understand.

lol, these people are what you call "hicks." they cannot be understood by normal people.

Wow, Undesired. That was pretty intense.

Pansy99, as a 14 year old, you would think I would have some idea about what is going on in your daughter's mind. But I can't understand. I would advise you do what I would want my own mom to: force her to sit down and talk to you. I guarentee she will not like it, but she'll get over it. Make her see that what she is doing is wrong. She needs you to tell her. I think she may also need to be artound a better male role model, like a grandfather, rather than her mother's boyfirends (no offense).
I really hope I helped in some way. Again, I wish you luck.

You're daughter sounds like a chubby little girl who can't get attention from boys her own age at school so she settles for old guys that need medication to get it up. She also sounds like an ungrateful slutty brat that needs to get slapped around a few good times to learn to keep her chubby little legs close and to also learn to close that ignorant mouth of hers that she always seem to run off. Your X, well... one word comes to mind, bastard. As for you, what the hell were you doing to get you and your family in that situation? How dumb are you? How can you allow your daughter to be that stupid? And how can you not know about your boyfriend? I see where your daughter gets it. It's true what they say, what your children do and say represents you. Just like what you do and say represents them.

You, your daughter and your boyfriend are all screw-ups. I say wipe yourself out and call it a day.

lmfao

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Originally posted by pansy99:
Dear Penthouse,
I never thought it could happen to me, but I CAME HOME EARLY FROM WORK A FEW WEEKS AGO AND FOUND MY 15-YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND MY 42-YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND HAVING SEX ON THE KITCHEN FLOOR!

I totally lost it! I started screaming and cursing and beating off my boyfriend and when he ran out of the house I started beating on my daughter. As she moaned for more, I lost myself in a tempest of incestuous sadomasochistic lust!

Love,
Yummy Mummy in Alabama