ok so i met this guy the other day and he was only 1 year older then me, 15. we were at the movies and i asked him if he wasnted to sit with me so he did. we were talkin and when the movie was over he gave me a kiss then he also got my number. then when he was gettin out he pulled his keys and he had a pic. of a little boy, so i go who is that your brother? he goes no that my 9 mth old son. i tried to to freak out so i was like o thats cool. shuld i continue seein him even though he has a son?????

it's up to u. if u like him, than go out with him, if not, just be friends. but i think u should be friends with him before u date him. cuz u have to get to know him better.after all, u knew him for only 3 hours.

i'd agree with billy and monkmiester. you know this guy's trouble, and that's not good.

Well, if you feel comfortable dating him then go ahead and do it.

If you don't feel comfortable dating him but you like being around him then be friends with him and see how everything goes from there.

If you don't feel comfortable dating him or even being around him then just don't do that.

Really, it's your choice.

Well, I'm guessing you don't feel comfortable dating him but you do like hanging around him so I think you should be friends with him and see how it goes from there. I really don't think you should be jumping into a relationship with any guy with or without a baby but if you do like doing that then you could, there's nothing wrong with that either. It sound like being friends with him and seeing what happens is the best idea for both of you.

However, I don't know how you feel about this and it's really up to you.

Bye N Have a nice day

Well, I think you shouldn't jump into a relationship with this guy, because let's face it, you just met him, but hang out with him and see what he's like. Be friends first. In my opinion, everyone deserves a second chance, plus, you haven't even heard his story. If you've hung out and you see that he's totally mature, go for it if you think it's right. Remember, don't do something you're not ready for. Pre-marital sex is risky, and I think you're too young to just throw your life away like that. Take things slow.

I agree with Monkmiester....

and call me selfish, but...if I wanted kids...I'd have them already. That's too young to be taking care of kids, trust, life is hard enough.

i would dfitch him . Unless you want to end up with a kid at a VERY young age

Nah chika. He sounds like bad news. Kissing someone you just met only works out in movies, and even then they just use eachother. This guy is plainly not responsible. Please dont see him honey, he could get you in trouble, dont stick around to find out!

You probably do not need to see this guy again. Maybe as a friend, but nothing more. He may be more responsible now, but maybe not. Even if in a few years you still want to date this guy, you should really talk to your parents first.