I haven't had a boyfriend at all in middle school Is there something wrong with me?! I weigh 128 lbs and am 5'2" and 13 years old. HELP!!!!!

Gurlie
There is nothing wrong with you the guys are what is wrong dont let love or lust fill your mind it is much healther to focus on being a gurl and not worring bout guys. They just get you in more trouble than your really willing to take. Just love God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit and make good grades. Love will find you if your willing to let it. Trust me.

just trying to help.

Youre perfectly normal. Im 14 and Ive never had a boyfriend, and Im completely ok with that!

hey-
nothing's wrong with you. I've only had one bf, and i'm in highschool.

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boyfriends aren't that great anyway, and you honestly don't need one at thirteen, nor do you every really need one, so don't stress. guys are stupid at that age, they'll come around.

Technically, I shouldn't be sticking my nose in here, but I will anyway. Look, guys are really stupid at Middle School age. Don't ask me why we are, but we are. We don't quite look for the nicer things in life at that age. Trust me, it took me a long, long time to find out that there are really good things to look for in girls. So, don't worry!!! They will come around in the long run. Pinky promise!!!
Mark

OH my gosh girl. Nothing is wrong with you. Guys are mean and sometimes they are scared. Try making the first move and talking to them. I had my first boyfriend in 6th grade and my first REal boyfriend my sophmore year. I mean life comes at you when it wants to. email me sometime
brittanie14@hotmail.com

oh honey, don't worry. boys are just slow. i didn't have a boy friend until i was 14, and it felt like it took forever to land him. middle school relationships may seem like the only thing in the world to you, but in the long run, they seem so sappy. just don't worry about it, and have fun! you have all of your life to date! if you really need a guy, don't wait for him to come to you, bait up that hook and find your fish in the sea!

Ah, although I rather like Loc's idea, I recognize that's it's also rather rude.

I think that I've had the most fun times in my life when I'm single. I mean, you can see what's around, flirt with anyone you want, not worry about all those stupid little things that you have to think about with a boyfriend.

It's been nearly 2 years since I last had a boyfriend (although I've heard rumors that I dated someone last year, you'd think I'd know about it??) and I've greatly enjoyed my time off, and have no plans on jumping back into that circus. I purposely mention all the terrible things I've done to guys, that'll keep 'em all away!

Seriously though, these girls know what they're talking about. 13 is a great time to be boyfriend free, so enjoy it while it lasts!

there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. maybe your just worrying to much about it, just try to relax a little about it. when the time is right that one special guy will ask you out

You're worried that you're THIRTEEN and haven't had a boyfriend? I'm 16 and I haven't had one yet. Seriously, don't worry. I've got past the stage of worrying about it and it's much easier. It'll happen when it happens. In the meantime, enjoy yourself! It doesn't do any good obsessing over this sort of thing, you just start to get desperate. I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. People may treat it like it's the most important thing in the world, but really, having a boyfriend isn't everything, and certainly not at your age… friends are more worthwhile so concentrate on them, you've got plenty of time. DON'T PANIC!

Bex

Hey you need to relax! There is nothing wrong with you. God made you and he makes all things beautiful and in His loving eyes you are beautiful. He will send someone very special your way, just ask. I am a senior in high school, I have been hurt by love so many times that I have decided to let God do the picking, so I am remaining patient and waiting for the right"Prince Charming" to show up.

You girls are so confident.
You people rock! Really you do.
I don't think I could ever be that confident like you girls. That's why I really look up to you people even though I never met any of you.
Um..........that's about all I have to say...............I never had an boyfriend neither..............so hints: I never been kissed or anything.
Bye N Have a nice day

Why must we sit around moping about guys? Being your own person is totally way way way better than trying to figure out how to change to catch a guy.


Love, Jenny

Why you feel theres someting wrong with you? Theres no age to start having a boyfriend. The important thing is you meet a guy you really like. Not just anyone. Youre 13!!!! Then youll be married to a guy until you die, or get a divorce..., so whats the rush?

All my friends have boyfriends and I ask myself that question. I figure that I'm too busy to have a boyfriend right now. Most of my friends come crying to me weekly when they break up with their boyfriends. I think that maybe it is better to be single not having to worry all the time about what your boyfriend is doing while you aren't with him, calling him every five minutes stuff like that. You will have plenty of time when you are older to worry about guys. Focus on school on all the important things in your life and stop worrying about what the opposite sex thinks about you.You are saving yourself from alot of heart aches.

I am 16 in the 10 grade and I never had a true boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out or never been told that I was liked. I wouldn't say I am truely grotesque and I would sometimes question why...or maybe it is because I am obnoxious and rude, but anyways my point is don't worry yourself over it. Having a boyfriend isn't as great as it sounds. So be proud of being single because you have your whole life to be attached to someone

aww first of all, dont listen to locutus! i would agree with everything birdy says. she's right on target.