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Registered: June 07, 2008
Posts: 2
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Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 month now he is so sweet, handsome, and just everything a boyfriend should be. My problem is that he told me he loves me and I just don't feel that way for him. I really like but sometime it feels like he trying to push me into loving him. What should I do??? 
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Registered: October 28, 2004
Posts: 1876
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Unfortunately the sad truth is that while he may love you, if you don't love him back then the relationship won't last. The weird thing about love is that it is a very deep word (not a complex word contrary to popular belief) & it always means the same thing, just to different degrees. A few of my friends said that they weren't sure if they loved who they were with so I asked them 3 questions. They are: 1.) When you spend time with this person, do you genuinely enjoy their company or do you wish you were with someone else at the moment? 2.) Does this person upset you more often than they make you happy & do you make them upset more often than you make them happy? 3.) If this person were to die today, would you miss them dearly & feel as though part of your life was missing or would you feel only a little sad & forget them in five years? Ask yourself these questions any time you need to know if you love someone or not.
YOU ARE NOT PREPARED!
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Registered: June 04, 2008
Posts: 8
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You should wait until both of you mean that you do love eachother. You will know. You will just feel at ease about everything and have him there and the same for him. It's amazing, but don't rush into it. 
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Registered: August 19, 2008
Posts: 11
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tell him the truth. that you're not sure if you feel the same for him. if thats how you're feeling. just because you don't feel the same doesn't mean you have to give up a great guy. it just might be harder for you to let someone into your heart then it is for him. talk to him about it and just go with the flow. >_^
The starz only shine bright because they're surrounded my darkness.
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Registered: June 09, 2008
Posts: 136
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Tell him that you need more time to think about your feelings.
-gaby [There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. -William Barclay]
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Registered: April 15, 2003
Posts: 1396
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The carcass and all materials associated with the carcass should be destroyed and the ground should be disinfected. This can be very difficult. The preferred method of destruction would be incineration of the carcass. Burying the carcass deep (at least 6 feet) and covering with quick lime is still acceptable. The following are general recommendations for burning a 1000 pound carcass: a pit about 2 feet deep and exceeding the length and breadth of the carcass by about 1 foot on each side is dug. A 1 foot by 1 foot trench is dug along the length of the center of the pit extending beyond the ends of the pit by about 3 feet; this serves as an air duct for the fire under the carcass. The trench is filled and the bottom of the pit is covered with straw and soaked with accelerant (kerosene or diesel fuel). Heavy timbers such as railroad ties cut to fit across the trench and within the sides of the pit are placed on top of the straw. Other pieces of wood (or coal) are added until the pit is filled to level with the ground surface. This is all saturated with accelerant. The carcass can then be lifted or drawn onto the pyre. Further accelerant is poured over the carcass. The fire is ignited at either end of the trench. Once the incineration is well underway (probably after the first hour), the pyre should be covered with corrugated metal or other metal sheeting to retain heat but not lose ventilation. If the ground and material under the animal are contaminated by blood and body fluids, it is preferable that this be incinerated as well. Soil should be removed deep enough to contain blood and body fluids, and this could be up to 6 inches. This material can be placed on top of the carcass prior to ignition of the pyre. The approximate quantities of fuel that will be needed are 50 pounds of straw, 2½ gallons of accelerant, and 2 tons of wood or ½ ton of wood and ½ ton of coal. If soil and other related materials can not be incinerated, it can be disinfected with 5 percent formaldehyde solution at 50 quarts per square yard.
Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
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Registered: August 17, 2001
Posts: 5812
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Communication. The thing we as people suck at and lack. Communication is the key in all relationships. Talk to him about how you feel. That's step one. Step two: think about yourself and whether or not you can see yourself falling for him. If the answer is no and there is no chemistry there, don't lead him on. It probably won't get better with time and all you're doing is cheating both of yourselves out of better relationships. Khary, WTF?
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Registered: April 15, 2003
Posts: 1396
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Somebody who is or feels guilty of another person's death (manslaughter, accident), or is afraid of being accused of a crime in relation with the death may try to dispose of the body in such a way that finding it is more difficult or impossible, to delay people finding out about the death, to conceal the identity of the deceased, and to avoid autopsy. Even without guilt of death it may be kept secret, e.g. to collect the pension of the victim, or (at least in some fiction) children may not want the death to be found out, because they want to avoid getting a new legal guardian. The victim falls in the category missing persons as long as a body is not found, unless death is so likely that the person is declared "legally dead". The most common is burying the body in a shallow grave. Other methods are leaving the body in a deserted place or a private place, such as one's freezer, dumping it in a body of water, dissolving it with corrosive chemicals, hiding it in cement or concrete, and burning it. Sometimes the body is cut into pieces (e.g. dismemberment) to facilitate disposal; it also enables disposal of each piece separately. The mafia have been known to have the bodies chopped up (i.e. dismembered) then put in the trunk of the person's car. The car is then taken to a mafia-affiliated junkyard and the body crushed, leaving no trace and the car is gone so a murder investigation is never even started. In many coastal areas it is common for persons who were murdered to be disposed of by mean of a crab pot. A murderer may simply hack up the dead, remove the teeth and finger nails, and crush the skull. Then the deceased is put into a crab pot, put to sea.
Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
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