I totally messed up. I been with my girl for a while but now shes threatening to break up with me because we don't hang out 24/7 like we used to. She says I'm neglecting her, which is kinda true, but we don't have the time like before. She says shes thinking about leaving me but I don't even want it to get to that point.

Anyone got any ideas on how to win her back? I've been trying to take her out to dinners and stuff to show her that I care but time time time. And we always go out and do stuff together so I think the little gestures aren't enough. Please help!



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Just apologize in the most sincere way and explain the reasons you haven't been hanging out as much hope she understands

I think that u guys should talk...and if she cant compromise for the sake of the relationship then break up and let her feel what its like being completly cut off from you

"Love for each other should exeed the need for each other"

I think that you are putting too much of the blame on yourself.It takes two people to communicate and spend time together.

If you do want to win her back and you really like her then tell her how you are feeling about this and how hard you are trying, and if she doesnt appreciate it then maybe it is the best idea to break up, maybe after you will find someone who has a more similar schedule to your own, or someone who knows that you care even if you're not there 24/7.

and nice, thoughtful texts are nice if you cant always be together too.

wow i remember i was in a situation like this girl i was going out with realy liked going shopping and that takes money you need/want money means you need a job so i got a job and well same circumstances it ended up not working out

I actually just like the fact that you want to win her back. But if she's saying that she wants to break up with you, then I think you should really talk to her about that if you really don't have the time go hang out like you used to.

Spend time together where you can, call/text/IM where you can...if that's not good enough, then she's probably not the best person for you to be in a long term relationship anyway.

I think there's more to the story than just not spending time. It honestly sounds like your girlfriend is going to break up with you no matter what, so just let her go. Not worth your time.