ok my boyfriend is in college and im a junior in highschool. well he snd i got throught a bump with not seeing eachotheer that often but we worked it out also he told me he was moving far away from where we live. now he said that he is going to frence for 3 months for college and get some units there. im not sure i want him to go cause im nervouse that something will happen or when he comes back he will be over me and on to someone older. HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I'm glad to know your situation has cleared up Shorty.

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oh well thanks for the great advise but i broke it off found out he was keeping secrets from me and lying to me. oh yeah did i mention he was in love with my best freind andehe told her he would rather be with her than me while we were still dating. well theres more but if you want to know just message me or reply to this

I agree, you know as cheesy as it sounds, if he loves you, he'll come back. And maybe this will be good for you guys, it might make you guys stronger.

What happens will happen. I agree with ikki. don't tie him down when he's leaving you for three months. I would be wise to create an open relationship.

Anyway, that's my advice.

The best thing you can do is not be controlling

as the last poster said, he is going to do what he wants to do. He can either leave with you guys being on a good note or you can throw a fit he will leave anyway and be more apt to find someone less controlling. It sounds to me like you guys are just in different stages of life, he wants to start his life, and travel, you still have senior prom and graduation to think about. Let him do what he needs to do, if you two are suppost to be together you will be, if not then let it go. Is he really worth it if he leaves for three months and replaces you like you were a lost pair of socks?

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. im not sure i want him to go cause im nervouse that something will happen or when he comes back he will be over me and on to someone older. HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?

He's his own person. He'll do what HE wants to do. You can talk to him about how you're feeling, but the best thing to do if he's going for sure may be to break up during that time period-- or at the very least create an open relationship-- and see other people.