I know this may sound stupid but..........
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. All most all of my High School years. All my family is telling me that I should date in High School. But i love my boyfriend. I don't want to leave him, but I am curious what it's like to go out and have fun with guys. My boyfriend is always working and we don't go out a lot. (like once a month if that). Should I listen to my family? I don't know what to do. Sorry. I'm done. I know it was dumb

You are really lucky to have such a great relationship going. Don't throw it all away. You'll just feel guilty for a long time and that'll keep you from finding the same thing again for a long time. Enjoy your time together and just think how lucky you are to have him. I have seen a lot of really great couples break up for the same reason that you're considering and most of them end up either in a whole lot of short, pointless relationships or none at all.

Well it started with me and his brother. His brother and I were like best friends. He called me his little sis. Then my b/f and I started talking and hanging out. He got with me at first to make some girl jealous but he said after going out with me for a week he totally liked me(what a weird guy to tell me that). But we've been together ever since.

That's great. It must be wonderful having someone like that (don't worry I won't "awwww" you). When you're not tied down to one person you kinda might go out to movies or whatever a couple of times with one guy, if you don't want to keep dating him and maybe become boyfriend and girlfriend then you kinda fly solo until you do the same someone else and so on it goes. By the way, how DID you manage to snag a guy so great? ::winwink:: share your secret because all of my relationships have ended in some kind of mini-disaster.
Luck 'n' Best wishes,
~Quebby~

thanks. Ya I do like him alot. I love him. It's just since everyone has been putting pressure on me it's been hard. And i mean i kinda wonder what other people do when they aren't tied down (im just curious by nature lol). I don't think I'd ever leave him. I don't think I could he has been the best guy ever. excpet for the going out part

That's a tough situation to be in. I think maybe you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you'd like to go out more often, although you understand his busy work schedule. Maybe he can find out what hours he's working every week or whenever and you can plan to go out or at least spend some time together maybe once a week or something when he has time off. If he doesn't know that you'd liek to get out together more, he can't make time to do so. As for the idea of dating other guys...I think that if you like this guy as much as you seem to, he's all you need. The chances of you finding a relationship like you have now again in high school are small. I'd stick with this guy, since he seems to be filling the position, so to speak, well. However, if you just want to date around and not be tied down, depending on the guy I doubt he'll be okay with "so I'm going to date other guys and if I don't find anyone better we'll get back together" you know what I'm saying? Besides, if you go out with him more often then it'll be the same as with other guys just with a guy you really really care about.
Best Wishes and Good Luck,
~Quebby~