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Registered: November 17, 2003
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Okay, I have a little problem that i'm not able to talk to anyone i'm close with about and i'd appreciate any advice or similiar stories or anything!  I used to live in Washington and this summer i moved to Texas. While in washington i met a really nice guy through some friends. He is a few years older than me, and it was amazing going out with a guy who wasnt immature and knew what he wanted out of life. We dated for about six months and then i moved to texas. We ended things and both of us are now dating other people and havent talked in a long time. ( we broke up in may)but i talked to him a couple days ago and all my feelings for him came back. and he says he feels the same way. I"m going up to visit for xmas and we are meeting. NOw, the part i need the help with is I want to move back and be with him. but part of me wants to stay in texas until my mom and i both move back to washington. Which will be this summer. HE said he will wait for me until this summer(of course he will date other girls tho) which is the part i'm worried about. He's who i would love to spend the rest of my life with. Maybe not be married, but if i can be friends with this guy until the day i die, i will be the happiest woman in the world. Have you guys/girls ever felt so strongly about someone like that? Should i move back this xmas or just wait till the summer? 
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Registered: November 17, 2003
Posts: 5
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Yeah i have no idea what to do. I think i will just wait till this summer and hope everything works out like i want it to. I usually end things when i move because i know that long-distance relationships are hard and usually never work. I'v moved a lot and so im used to moving on after i move but with this guy i cant stop thinking of him and when im with my boyfriend now, whom i'v been dating for about 3 months i call him by the other guys name occasionaly and I'll be like remember that time we went up to mount baker and stuff and i had never done that with him, but with my ex. I don't know whats wrong with me!! but thanks sunset.
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Registered: October 17, 2003
Posts: 4624
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I know that long-distance relationships are really hard. OK, personally I have no idea what to tell you! I would just date other guys and wait. Than when you move back see what happens. But, if you REALLY miss him and CANNOT wait than go. Sorry if I'm not much help. When this happened to me I just cut it off all together.  -Sunset 
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