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Picture of alyssaowns
Registered: March 05, 2008
Posts: 6
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Ugh, I would but on here it's blocked. I'm On the school's cumputers, Great they havn't found out about this website huh?
Only a couple of my friends know about this website.
But what I heard from Everyone and teachers also.
A person my age actully if your not 18 or older you can't date a person younger.
If you go check out my blog on my profile you'll see how much I was in love with ' Ryan' and then we couldn't be together cuz of this silly little age differnce. Oh By the way Ryan's
18 and I'm 15 Just In case I didnt say before.
:P I'm Very mature for my age lol.
Oh I'm Grounded off the net at home until Saturday.
And I'll Reply whenever I'm at school when I'm In the cumpter Class Or in Study Hall
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Registered: August 17, 2001
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My problem is the dating laws of Wisconsin.


Could you give a link maybe to the exact wording of the law?


Picture of alyssaowns
Registered: March 05, 2008
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Dating laws.
My problem is the dating laws of Wisconsin. To me there is no problem in age differences unless you’re 13 or younger. When your 14 or older you should be wise enough to whomever you want to date To me and other people they should loosen up the law so 14 teens are aloud to pick who they want to date. It should be their decision on which to date, it’s Wrong to tell someone who they should and shouldn’t date.
The reason why I think this is so wrong is because girls and boys have abused themselves because of this law. People shouldn’t be doing things to themselves over a law. If people could really think about this, The Governor should realize how much depression he’s putting on the young teenagers by not letting them be with the ones they love.
My Solution is the government either take down this law or change it.
reason why I'm saying all this? It's becuase Belive it or not. Girls mostly Abuse themselfs or even end up killing themselfs over this :P
Shaabamm
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Registered: February 26, 2008
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well im 13 an i have been talking to this guy that is 17 an he knew thats how old i am but he said he likes me but also seems to think that me being this young is aginst the law is this even is it a law or did he make it up his self?
Picture of Wampler101
Registered: February 26, 2008
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so...does anybody have any clue what the age laws for dating is in South Dakota...I'm 15 and my bf is 19. Is there anything wrong with that?
Picture of brunette1234
Registered: August 19, 2007
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im 17 and i was wondering..my mom already said she consents for me to be with someone who is 25. Is it still illegal even if i have my parents consent?

thanks


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Registered: August 17, 2001
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Putting the six year age difference aside...

If you're dating your boss, that is a really bad idea. If you two broke up, or if something happened, work would be hell for you. Also, you may be getting special attention from him at work, which may not bode well with other employees.


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Registered: August 09, 2007
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Heyy everyone.. I am 15 dating a 21 year old, and yes we get ALOT of flack from EVERYONE.. who doesn't know the situation, which is the sad part because no one wants to... any one know about a trust law.. p.s pretti bad styll but he is also my boss (was.. might be forced to quit by my father who is telling me I can never see him again)
CECE Mad
Picture of girlgrey
Registered: July 07, 2007
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Officially, it's not even illegal for you to have sex when you turn 14, that's the age a person supposedly is old enough to decide. However, until you turn 16, it's not legal to engage in any sexual activity AT ALL (no kissing, making out, oral, anything) with someone over 18, or it is considered a form of rape.


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Registered: August 17, 2001
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At the age of 14 you are old or wise enough to pick who ever you want to date.



Not always. It depends on the person. Some college students aren't old or wise enough to figure out who they want to date (that's healthy). It all really just depends on the person.

P.s. Babytink, try not to double or triple post. You can quote people, and you can edit posts up to 8-10 minutes.


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Registered: March 02, 2007
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as for you weed4life you are triphalin. Why in hell would you date som eone 7 years older than you. Just to let you know he will go to jail if anyone finds out. At the age of 14 you are old or wise enough to pick who ever you want to date. Just warning you about the consequences that are ahead.
Picture of babytink
Registered: March 02, 2007
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By law when he turns 18 and you are under 18 then he is subject to stachitory rape charges so be careful. He can go to jail for a while if anyone presses charges. Just telling you proven facts.
Picture of wudyouysn
Registered: March 04, 2007
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yai would like to find out the laws on dating as well. im 16 and he's 14, i live in canada and he lives in new york. i dont kno if it's illegal to date or have sex...im unsure and i just would relly like to kno just incase we do get caught if we ever do, do it...i personally dont see anything wrong with it.
please help!
Picture of ampmaster
Registered: February 22, 2004
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why is this still here? honestly why?


"The very existence of flamethrowers proves that sometime, somewhere, someone said to themselves, "You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I'm just not close enough to get the job done"."
Picture of LoveTheRainbow
Registered: October 28, 2005
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Not to put you down but think about it? What 21 year old wants to be with someone who is 14?


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Registered: February 10, 2007
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I'm 14 years old dating a 21 year old...would be able to be still be going out if my mom gives us permison to be togethier... Confusedwww.myspace.com?dickiesgirl2010
Picture of clpo13
Registered: November 05, 2004
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It probably depends on your state (heck, some states consider premarital sex illegal no matter what age you are), but as far as I know, it's only illegal when you have sex, i.e. statutory rape. And while I find it odd that a 13 year old (seventh grader) would be dating an 18 year old (a high school senior), if your parents have no objections, then that's all that really matters. Other people may think it wrong, but those are their opinions, nothing more.


The more you know, the less you don't know.
Picture of Confuzzledness
Registered: January 31, 2007
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Okay. I've been searching the internet for information on this, but I can't find anything helpful. I'm dating a guy who's over 18, and I'm 5 years younger then him. I know it's illegal to have sex n all, but how far can we go before it starts to be illegal? Can we kiss and stuff, or would people consider that too far? And if my parents are okay with it, is there any problem with us dating?
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Registered: August 10, 2006
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i'm new here need to find some stuff out... i ws dating a guy for 6 months... everyone was fine with it im now 14 (15 in 2months) and i was dating a 17 year old... somehow the cops fond us and said brake up or he goes to jail... i thought it was perfectly fine to date him.. he wasnt 18 and the both of us would never hav sex until it ok....but heres the catch.. he lives in canada and i live in connecticut.. can someone tell me wats up?
~Cait
Picture of CelticNewAger
Registered: December 11, 2003
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Look, to answer all your doubts:

It is perfectly legal for someone for you to date someone that's till 18. Unless you are, say, 11 and the person is 18, I don't think there is a law approving or dispproving that, but it's certainly frowned upon.

If you are dating someone and they happen to turn 18, it's still legal, unless the person is seven years older than you.

If you are 15, and dating a 22-year-old, it's also legal. Seven years max, I think.

Now, quit bitching on it. As a professinal older-man dater, I can say that worrying about this is extremely stupid unless the person is THAT MUCH (like ten years or more) older than you, and even then most people don't give a shit and you can hide pretty well. And if you're worried the eprson is too old for you and they are 18 or under, then it's probably because you're too naïve to be dating someone older than you.

Dating in general is a huge responsibility, dating someone older is worse, because it can either better your life or worsen it if you're not ready.


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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