hey, well this guy and i really like each other. but the only problem is that he is six years older than i am. myself i am 15. he is 21. but my sister that is now 24 started dating her husband wen she was my age and he was seven years apart. my parents always told me that age doesn't matter but the way they act around this guy sends a whole different message! is it illegal? and if so what should i do. this guy really loves me and i love him back!

lovergirl92

the legality of the situation depends on where you live...

but if this guy really loves you he will be there by your side with or with out a ring cerimony, sex, or anything else that might hinder the relationship...

a man that truly loves a woman will be willing to lay every advantage of a relationship at the womans feet trusting and knowing she will do the best in his interest... and vice versa for women... if you can't do that, and don't have that, you truly have nothing...

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tell all there friends because they think that its such a big deal

We still do, the only difference is that our friends are probably older and aren't in highschool anymore so you usually dont find out about it.

Nah, it's okay.

oh right :S no offense

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yeah well they were probably neeks in highschool and never had a girlfriend so probs didnt lose there virginity till they was 18.

Hey, hey, hey. I fit all those descriptions and I don't think about sex all the time. Only when I'm with my long-term girlfriend...

sorry i didnt mean religion i meant religion teacher but i must have accidently missed out the word

:S

i guess really it should'nt be about age much...it should be about maturity levels...haha
and yeah, i know plenty of 20 year old males that still giggle at the mention of "69"
or "duty" lol

i know this is random and everythnig but this is about age and stuff but.....

OMGAWD my new religion is sexy!!

oryt oryt

you got me

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yeah well they were probably neeks in highschool and never had a girlfriend so probs didnt lose there virginity till they was 18.

If that...

Some guys (and girls) only ever want sex no matter the age. You can't use age as a determining factor as to who only wants sex and who wants a relationship.

yeah well they were probably neeks in highschool and never had a girlfriend so probs didnt lose there virginity till they was 18.

lmao

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but 15 year old boys get bum frills over the mention of sex, and then tell all there friends because they think that its such a big deal

*Is reminded of a few certain twenty year old males*

i am funny yes.

yeah i undersatnd that older guys can be immature but 15 year old boys get bum frills over the mention of sex, and then tell all there friends because they think that its such a big deal

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Originally posted by clpo13:
Dating someone five years older than you is one thing, but a guy nearly twice your age? What on Earth would a 17 year old see in a middle-aged guy with a kid?

Well, my friend claimed that they both "loved" each other. But then she was always bringing him things and caring for his daughter. She finally decided that he was taking advantage of the fact that she is better off than most.

That is why I just want anyone who gets into situations like this to BE VERY SAFE. I don't care if both in the relationship "love" each other. BE SAFE.

Dating someone five years older than you is one thing, but a guy nearly twice your age? What on Earth would a 17 year old see in a middle-aged guy with a kid?

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i have lots of friends who have dated guys a lot older than them because atleast you know that they arent immature and just in it for sex like young boys are.

Take it from an older guy: we're still into sex. Even more so, considering we're long past puberty. And as for being mature...sorry to disappoint, but some guys don't grow out of immaturity until they wake up one morning and realize they're 30 and have a beer gut.

Hey, I don't want to say that I am totally against dating people older than you because one of my friends did, just be careful. One of my friends (17) dated this guy (33) who has a kid...she broke up with him and he turned into something sort of like a stalker. I'm scared for her. So please just be careful, okay?! Things are different with everyone, but don't jump into things. =)

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Originally posted by grace33:
i have lots of friends who have dated guys a lot older than them because atleast you know that they arent immature and just in it for sex like young boys are.

You're funny.

something that boils my blood is bieng told that because you are young you do not know what love is
that is also known as BULLS**T
just because you had no experience of it when you were young it doesnt mean others havent

anyways.......it is ilegal, but as any teenage grl would know who the hell wants to go out with a immature 15 year old boy.
i have lots of friends who have dated guys a lot older than them because atleast you know that they arent immature and just in it for sex like young boys are.
if i were you i would go for it but make sure its a decision your going to stick with not just a sper of the momnet sort of thing

OKAY, so a lot of these are from the girls perspective, so i thought i would chime in with some...of my..issues...
i'm 18 and the girl i was dating is 13, and we eventually broke up because of all the legal issues, and parental issues and....well, there was a bunch of problems that could have gone my way...and possibly hers too...

but just before you guys jump to conclusions, i'm definetly not like most guys, because i'm PRETTY sure most older guys, that date girls...just want sex, and thats about it...actually, probably most guys in general just want sex...and really i'm pretty self controlling on things like that.

it's just that i really liked her, and i had to do something i REALLY did'nt want to do, because i thought it was right...

well thats about it for me...