A lot of these post topics are all about negative stuff and it kinda started to depress me. So I decided to make a new topic about something positive!

Girls... what do you look for in a guy??

Guys... what do you look for in a girl??

For me... a guy has to look pretty good and have a cute smile. And of course a great personality. He has to like my friends and obviously get along well with me. lol. Also he couldn't smoke anything... OMG that is such a turn off!! Eww!!

Yeah this is a prolly a really dum topic and really random but i don't care cuz i was just gettin sick of all the posts about suicide and drugs and abortion!! If you have a problem with this post then just dont reply to it!! Heehee!!

That's fine. I just feel like I have more in common with people that share the same beliefs with me and those are the people that are my closest friends. But whoever you want for friends, as long as their not trying to blow anybody up or take over the world, I hope you have strong friendships.

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I'm only saying that because we don't share the same beliefs, we would not be able to be that close of friends.

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I am Wiccan.

My closest friends are Catholic, Baptist, Athiest, Buddhist, and Presbyterian.

We get along incredibly and I love them as unconditionally as I love my sister, who is, by the way, Quaker.

I don't think I would date outside of my denomination because there would be problems if we got married about where we'd go to church and how to raise our kids. I just think it's best to find someone who shares your beliefs.

Are you saying that you dont even date outside of your denomination?? I personally would be thrilled to land any other christian, let alone a nice Lutheran guy (given that I only know like 6!).

I would love this person and treat them as a human being. I'm only saying that because we don't share the same beliefs, we would not be able to be that close of friends. One of my best friends that now goes to a different school was Lutheran. She was a nice girl, but she knew that I didn't like cussing so she did not cuss around me. We didn't agree on some things, and sometimes there were fights, but we were good friends. The only thing there was she had beliefs that were closer to mine than that of a Muslim.

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It wouldn't happen!!!! I don't agree with his beliefs, so I wouldn't spend alot of time with him.

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Just because he is Muslim? You're Christian, therfore you are supposed to love thy neighbor or something. That means everyone, right? Even people with different beliefs.

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Move on to another subject already!!!

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I will once you admit that you wouldn't hang out with this guy just because he was Muslim.

It wouldn't happen!!!! I don't agree with his beliefs, so I wouldn't spend alot of time with him. Move on to another subject already!!!

What if you had known this Muslim guy all your life and then fallen in love with him? What would you have done then?

No, because there a person. I might not directly talk to them because I'm not that outgoing to people I don't know, but I wouldn't mistreat a person.

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I would definitely be nice to a Muslim person if I met one, but I would not attempt to become close friends with him.

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Just because they were Muslim?

You fall in love with people that you spend time with. I would definitely be nice to a Muslim person if I met one, but I would not attempt to become close friends with him. I spend time around people with whom I usually share the same beliefs and opinions with. I have acqauintances whose beliefs I don't agree with, but I am polite to them. I just do not become close friends with them.

Amaris is right. You don't get to choose! Sometimes you can fight having feelings for someone tooth and nail and it doesn't make one iota of difference. But if religion is such a big issue for you it does make it LESS likely that you will fall in love with someone of a different religion.

It doesn't matter what qualities I'm looking for in a guy, it never comes to anything.

That's my self-pitying pessimistic statement for the day over with… Have a nice day folks.

Bex

Guy must be:
not into ****s/hoars
funny
smart
nice
non perve
umm thats all i think..notice- I DONT CARE WHAT THE GUY LOOKS LIKE...how bad can it be???

Anyway, I found a guy that fits my standards.

Then you should know that you don't choose who you fall in love with.

Too late. I already have.

i would want my future bf to be compassionate, trustworthy, and nice to everyone, not just to me or his friends. i have a crush on someone just like that.

Iluvjp, if you think that you control who you fall in love with, then don't expect to fall in love.

I might like a Muslim guy or be friends with him, but I don't agree with his beliefs and would not date him. I wouldn't fall in love with him because our different beliefs hinder that.

Even if you loved them, you wouldn't date them? If you were in love with someone who was Muslim, and the sight of any other guy made you sick because you were so infatuated with the Muslim guy, you wouldn't date him because he wasn't Christian?